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Despite Extreme Love, For 5 Years we couldn't have a successful intercourse.
6 years ago · 0 · Need Advice, +2
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I'm not sure from where I start this. Anyway, it's been more than 5 years in a relationship which I can honestly call "True Love". I wouldn't talk more about our life and sacrifices but it's just a true love.
In the other side of this romance, there is a sad story. Since the start of our relationship, we never were successful to have a full intercourse.
The story started from the first day after we got together. We tried to have intercourse and she screamed of pain. We assumed it will be the first try and we will succeed later. Unfortunately, she got a psychological shock which leads to getting her very afraid and she got the period immediately the next day although it was supposed to be much later.
Anyway, I tried to be very patient with this subject and calm her down which I believe succeeded on that to some extent.
Days went by and she was convinced that we will keep trying, however, she still in severe pain (I guess) despite trying to use lubricates. Most of the time as a reaction she will just push me with her legs and we try again till she breaks down in tears and I have to calm her down and promise that I will always be with her. Sometimes when we don't succeed, we try to continue our enjoyment without insertion.
This is the story from a psychological side. Here is the other side of the story:
Four months after we started dating, we went to a doctor and she convinced us that she had to break her hymen and that will resolve the issue forever. We gave up that day desperately for a solution and we tried. When the doctor tried to do this small operation she screamed very loudly, unfortunately, the doctor screamed back to her telling her you are acting like a child. My lady kept crying the whole night, we are aren't sure if anything happened by the doctor or not that night.
For one year she wasn't willing to take consultant after the first doctor shock. Later she went to some psychological doctor who kept visiting for over year and no result.
She started going to another doctor for some time which started by checking her vagina and confirm everything is normal for her to have a successful intercourse. After a couple of months, she gave her a pill and assured her that this is the ultimate solution and she will feel completely relaxed and will enjoy the whole intercourse. The pill was "Ativan 1 mg". We tried and nothing was different.
At this point of time, I'm completely helpless. I really want to help her and help our relationship. I'm not sure what should we try next. I googled and I couldn't find any similar problem. Therefore, I'm just posting my story here and I hope I can have an answer.
Thank you
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