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So I'm interested in this guy. The problem is that we are just at two different points in our lives. I am still studying with one year left to graduate and he is already working and earning a living. Is there a way to make this work?...i don't like him for his money or anything and I've felt so bad when we went out and insisted to pay...so if we were actually dating i would feel bad every time we went out?...this is so hard because I really do like him a lot :(
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ReplyWhy don't you two just split the payment? Or rotate to pay when you two go on a date. For sure one cannot keep paying forever.
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Well if it were me I don't really care who pay although I might felt bad afterward but if my boyfriend say he'll pay then I'll let him pay.
ReplySome guys honestly just enjoy being able to pay... might sound kind of weird but we sometimes feel good about being able to pay because it means to us that we can provide for the person we care about... not in a "we bought dinner now they owe us" type deal. if he wants to pay let him the first few times and then after tell him you want to split payments because you don;t think its fair that he pays all the time.if he cares about you he will make time for you and visa-versa.Good Luck!
ReplyTalk to him and tell him how you feel. Waiting will only make you feel how you are right now, but longer and worse. If he rejects you and sees you as a friend, it isn't the end. He still sees you as a nice person to hang out with. If you get to know him longer and find out that he isn't the one don't feel bad. People change, you change and he also changes, don't be ashamed of what you might think if that happens. Love is loving the same person again and again when they change you either embrace that change and still love each other. If a change comes that you can't accept from him you don't have to spend time with him anymore.
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