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A: Why am i afraid?
B: Because the due date is near and i have not finished my work.
A: So, you must be very busy. Don't even waste your time being afraid. Make schedule. Use every single second wisely. No more procrastination. Procrastinate those distractions.
B: What if i couldn't do or present like i expected and everything will go wrong? will it?
A: That's future. It couldn't be judged from now. All you can do is take a time to be prepared. It's very important to make preparation. Do it and leave it what happens. Don't overthink the scenario.
B: Others will do better than me. My work will seem less in front of theirs.
A: Have you seen their work?
B: No, but may be. They will do.
A: How can you trust them so much and not to yourself?
B: ... Because i know me.
A: But you don't know them? How can you be so sure when you don't know them? You know yourself better than anyone. Okay, you know your flaws, you have your own strength. You may be not so confident. But it's not fair to have trust in others than yourself. Whatever the confident level you have in yourself, your trust in other should always be less than that. Always. Work on yourself to increase your confident. That's your only job.
B: What if they laugh at me and my work? What if i don't get praised for my work?
A: Then you laugh at them too. You can't just stand with them and feel pity about yourself. You should defeat the circumstances like that. Don't give them any control and rights to hurt you. Stand for yourself. Fight for yourself. Respect yourself and teach them to respect you as well. No one can misbehave you like that.
And about getting praised. Oh man! Why are you doing your work? To please others? Seriously? Because people praise things that please them. Why do you need to please them? Did they give you life? Are they god to you? Are you in dept of their good deed to you? Why? And it's people. Lots of people. Although you try hard, you cannot please all of them. It's such a waste of thoughts and time to even think about it. Let's make it easy. The only person you should please and get praised from is YOU. Yes, you. Please yourself as much as you like. Praise yourself more. See how this small change can change your perception about your work. Before, you try to please so many people and now you will please only one. See, less work.
B: Yup, got it. Thanks!! ^_^
A: Always with you, my dear.
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This is a really inspiring note. Its true we should always believe in ourselves and work for ourselves not because someone wants us to do something they want. Trust yourself.
ReplyI absolutely loved it. Best self talk ever!!
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