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While I was sitting in my mom's room she started telling me how when she ws going to the market on scooty she saw another girl sitting behind a guy (her bf acc. to mom) and that girl ws sitting very carelessly. She wore a small top and her jeans were more low waist than the low waist itself so while she sat on the scooty her butt cheeks were visible and most part of her waist. So mom ws telling how do girls dress these days, they have no shame, they live in a society and should dress properly n ol I was disagreeing with my mom to a bit but uptill here it ws all understandable coz my mom is an orthodox.
But the thing which was not bearable for me was when she said that "these are the type of girls which get kidnapped and raped and then these girls complain about boys assaulting them sexually" . I immediately opposed of this thought and replied OK so less clothes means a girl has given her consent to the boys to rape them ??! Then like an idiot she goes to the police and complain about a guy raping him. But then it ws my mom who I ws talking to n I'm not allowed to talk to her above a certain tone, my mom hit me in the leg (because I ws to agree with her to which I ws not agreeing) with a broom (basic weapon of all Indian moms) and then she told me to get out of her room and while I was going she changed the whole thing to " yeah because u also want to wear vulgar clothes right?".
This whole incident with my mum kept me thinking how does a girl's clothes can mean yes or no to sexual contact with any person even without her consent, and this kind of thinking means that you're saying yes to the fact that a guy can rape a girl who isn't wearing appropriate clothes and that the girl will be at fault not the boy . What kind of thinking is this ??!!
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