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I have this feeelings for this guy and he is my close friend, he is one of the first close boy friends that I have and I think that is why I got attached to him and he is such a gentleman. I just wonder why when we are together sometimes he is close to me and do sweet things or caring things to me but when it comes to chat he just ignores me. And I am just confused why? I really want to move on from him but every time I try to move on that is the time he is being close to me. Is he just using me to be his companion and use me??? Help
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