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unworthy.
6 years ago · 1
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I've always been insecure about myself but I lead a pretty busy life so I'm good at hiding my insecurities and I'm good at not showing how much I don't like myself. I sometimes get bad episodes where it feels like the world is caving in on me and I'm gonna disappear because no one cares about me. I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for over a year and I love him so much and I know he loves me, but when I get thinking this way, it's hard to keep in mind that he loves me. I used to work with his ex and I see her posts on social media and she is very pretty and has a good body and it makes me think " he's dated her so he knows how beautiful women can be. She is so much better than me she's more exciting and pretty. He could have any woman out there, so why is he with me?" I feel unworthy, ugly, fat, little, and alone. When it gets bad like this, it lasts at least two days and this funk is a bad one. I'm away at college so I miss him so much and it kills me that I can't be with him all the time. My heart aches a lot these days.
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Hey beautiful,
First of all you are deserving of all the compliments in the world because you are beautiful too.
And to me, even though i am insignificant, beauty is something that comes from within. Honestly, there will also be someone who is richer, smarter, has a curvier body or taller, or whatever you prefer, so why bother competing? But there is only one of you. If anyone wants to be with someone else they could, as your bf, but he chose you right.
But you could also date something, richer, taller, funnier than your boyfriend right. So that is just everyone basically.
Please don't feel insecure but just embrace yourself and love yourself. And if you don't like you right now then it's time you fall in love yourself again.
I hope you can focus college, as it is important for your future but at the same time don't lose yourself in your insecurities.