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How do you forget about someone?
How do you let go of someone you love, someone who was once yours?
My heart breaks every time I think about him with her.
When I saw their picture together. :(
How do you accept the fact that he's no longer yours anymore?
That all the promises we made were merely just words and nothing more.
8 years. I guess 8 years of us didn't mean anything to him.
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Here is the thing, as a person who has lost their love to somebody else.
First u need to try to admit that he is not yours anymore, slowly.
Second, don't try to avoid seeing em together.
Third, just make a mind set. "I love him, that I need to let him go, be happier with someone else"
Fourth (optional), realize that those 8 years, are a long chapter of a book (your life) which really hurts you, but you need to realize, there is more page that you can still write, where that page is far more beautifull and meaningfull.
ReplyIn my case, I really wanted to end the pain first. Then I realized that the suffering is inevitable. But I knew, that it will be easier with time, cause I've been there before. Sometimes you just relapse, and feel the pain again. But it won't ever be the same. We have to accept the pain for what it is. We suffer, because once we were happy. We suffer because so many beautiful things happened to us, and we feel we lost something. Letting someone, something go is one of the hardest things in life. Although you should know that when you finally could let him go, you will feel better. But letting go is not something you can actually decide. It just happens to you with time.
Try to cherish this life we are given. Try to realize the little things around you, and notice that life still an amazing experience, with all the fucking ups and highs. We suffer, because we love. But there will be another beautiful love in you life, and some pain too. We all have to experience this, just embrace the pain. I guess you experienced beautiful things with this guy. But YOU ARE AMAZING AND BEAUTIFUL on your own, too. Time will help, and your broken heart will be mended. And will be stronger than ever.đź’—
ReplyA good friend of mine experienced the pain same as yours, she said she experienced extreme pain, but i told to her that used that extreme pain to create a strong personality. A personality that no one can beat , a personality that can face any kind of pains.
ReplyAccept it and keep yourself busy. Make your life better by working hard. Make a plan and become successful in life. She would regret breaking your heart. And this would be the best thing u did to yourself. Do all the things they stopped you from doing. Feel great about yourself. You are free.
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