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Okay so I’m in a ‘ldr’ for those who don’t know what that is, ldr stands for long distance relationship. It’s been a month since we’ve been together and I haven’t really told any of my friends about it and neither has he, I presume that. Anyway so he’s 16 and I’m 18 and I don’t know if that’s a bad thing, I’ve had online friends (guys) who’ve had girlfriends who are older to them by a few years but I don’t know I mean I know age is just a number and we don’t have a huge age gap but I’m still not sure about it, maybe I’m just scared of people judging us or me in particular. He’s an amazing guy who’s always there for me and supporting or encouraging me, he makes me so happy like I constantly find myself smiling or laughing while we talk and I like that I see a change in my behavior I’ve always been this moody person and I’m always depressed especially this year cause I’ve been going through a lot this and I’m so happy that he’s a part of my life. I hope I make him happy too and I hope he’s happy that I’m a part of his, I mean I’ve asked a couple of times and he’s always told me that he’s happy that I’m in his life but I don’t know why I doubt it. He’s the first person I’ve ever been this happy with. I remember asking him once what does he love me as cause when were friends we used to say love you and I guess most friends say that and he told me that he loved me half as a good friend and half as a girlfriend and I don’t think that’s a bad thing cause we’re friends first before anything else. I guess I consider him the same way. But sometimes I feel like he doesn’t really consider me as a girlfriend cause there are times he’ll be like no one loves me and so on so forth which is kind of annoying cause I really love him….
At the beginning he did mention that if we do end up with other people we’ll still love each other as friends and I’m happy with the idea…so even if we break up we won’t lose our friendship. I’m not sure what I’m trying to get out of writing all this I guess I want to know if we’re in the right or wrong and maybe some advice to stop doubting my boyfriend not saying he’s cheating on me I meant in the sense whether he’s happy or not, plus he’s got a lot on his mind and I feel bad that I can’t help him, I’ve tried but I don’t think I’m helping him in any way. I really love him and I don’t want to lose him cause of my stupid mistakes.
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Well, ultimately you need to decide whether you do trust him or not. Your relationship can't continue without trust, so you need to try and figure out where that distrust comes from. Did something happen in the past to make you doubt him, or is it just a gut feeling?
All you can really do is talk to him, and ask him about it if you're feeling doubtful. If you still feel unsure about the whole thing, you need to decide once and for all whether to draw a line in the sand and forget about these concerns or whether you need to move on and part ways.
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