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The story of why I punched my boyfriend's roommate/ "friend" (if you can call him that.. LOL)
6 years ago · 0 · Stress, +12 · Explicit
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This person.
I have met some questionable people in my life, hell I have done some questionable things in my life but this person takes the cake on what it is to be a self-absorbed, manipulative, guilt tripping, martyr piece of human stuffing, like seriously, I am a girl, standing about 5'6". He is a military veteran, standing about 5'11" and I punched him, not even a good punch, but the poor baby left the room saying he over and over through out the day that he had been crying for hours. That he was cleaning and crying, called my boyfriend's dad, threatened to call the cops on me, etc etc.
I honestly didn't care if he had or had not called the cops at that point, I honestly think he deserved a better punch if he was going to whine and complain about it as much as he has. He has caused a lot more antipathy in the household for months, years and strain in the home more than I had.
Next day, he messages my boyfriend who isn't even remorseful about him getting punched, and I quote "It's not like he didn't deserve it", "should've gotten a better hit in", "If this is how he reacts to a poor punch, I would like to hate to see him in an actual fight", "I'm not even sorry he got punched", we both agree that the fucker has been taking advantage of him for years, in all honesty we're sitting here in the car wondering why he's crying when he's been beating down on my boyfriend's kindness for years, months, hell if I know, so I'll tell you how this came to be what happened:
Cassio breaks up with his girlfriend and gets kicked out of her place effective immediately, my boyfriend decided to take him in for a few months, he then proceeds to stay in his home, rent free, utilities free, playing video games, hanging out and not really paying anything or actively looking for a job, not helping around the house, cleaning, dusting, mopping, he in general just fully takes advantage of the situation, oh and he was going to school, with his GI Bill which he has basically thrown away, so all that military time and benefits for him to go to school for free and get paid for it, he has obviously thrown out the window, I wish he would have given one of my friends the chance to take advantage of what he threw away, some people honestly care about academics or going to school, it's infuriating.
Come five months later of this same bullshit, he finally starts paying rent, a whopping $500.00 dlls, no deposit, no tenant agreement, nothing at all, anyway - during this time, he stayed in the master bedroom, where-as my boyfriend stayed in a tiny bedroom that he designated for himself, Cassio didn't move out of the master bedroom until a year or so into him having moved in, he also brought in a dog which shit all over the carpet a few times and half-ass cleaned the mess, having to make my boyfriend clean after him.
My boyfriend suffers from some form of depression, sleep-apnea, lumber back issues and what not's. As time has gone by, his mental state has deteriorated, part of which he fully feels Cassio might be part of the issue, when Cassio moved in he was going to school, working and taking care of his responsibilities, as time has progressed he has slowly but surely become less motivated to upkeep himself and rise above, he has said "it's easier, but frustrating."
So, fast forward 2 years after this and a build up of constant selfish behaviors, and I mean week after week of him doing the bare minimum to upkeep the house, he has swept once or three times in his stay whereas my boyfriend does so 2-3 times a week. His room is an honest disgusting mess, he mistreats his dog which he keeps in a crate without having her go out and shit for 12 or more hours a day, she barely eats, has severe anxiety and acts as if she's been abused in some way. I have never seen a dog so scared of humans, and finally: He loves alcohol. He gave alcohol to an underaged girl for several months while they dated, not that it's much, she's not really
someone looking to improve her life or situation, he's crossed the line many times basically.
He honestly hasn't done anything to me directly to have me punch him, but I don't feel bad for having punched this shitty person.
My boyfriend should have been the one to punch him, but I don't care, I gave him a punch I felt he deserved and my boyfriend and friends support it, not the fact that I hit anyone, not the fact that I resolved to violence, I don't even feel good about that, but when it comes down to the person and what he has done, which I do not believe he understands how bad of a person he has been, he has left and right simply dictated that his standards of clean and my boyfriend's (homeowner) are different. He always gives my boyfriend liquor for his birthday and special occasions, as he has I, I gave him a bed frame, he didn't have one. So yeah... Some people are just idiots and I wanted to share my story because I don't feel bad, but I don't feel good.
In the end, the fact that my boyfriend is still my boyfriend after years of a crappy friendship, and I am talking about someone he's known since childhood - makes me feel better about it, but not entirely to not know that I did wrong, I should have not hit a person.
Oh, right: I asked my boyfriend to take the past out of the equation, and how long he's known him, if he could name 5 redeeming qualities. He named 1. I feel sorry for his girlfriend who's 8 years younger than him, whom I'm quite sure he'll screw up in one way or another - some people just deserve to not have people surrounding them.
PS: I forgot to mention that he does enjoy making some pretty shitty jokes:
"You want to hear a funny joke: Women's right"
Dead baby jokes
Racist jokes
Jokes about women
Jokes about feminism
Oh! He likes to say that he "fought" for the right to do and say as he pleases.
He also enjoys telling people he's had a hard life. (laughable compared to a lot of people who've had it worse.)
So yeah, just wanted to put that story out there, oh right - and if you know who he is. Sorry you didn't know how shitty of a human being he has been to someone who's only been kind and nice to him. I do not feel sorry to have punched a veteran, because I know veterans who did shit for this country and aren't running their mouths, 10 years, 15 years, 28 years in service and still strong in my family, the force, the fire department, I don't feel bad to have punched an asshole who in my eyes honestly deserved it, I feel sorry I punched a person, just not this person.
I shouldn't have punched him, this reminds me of the song from Chicago:
If you'd have heard it, if you had seen it, I bet you, you would have done the same.
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