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I'm 20, male, and have had no experience of a relationship and to be quite honest with you, I'm actually sick of it. Sometimes I feel like I'm not worth anything, maybe the way I look; skinniness, small, pale skin and eye bags so strong enough that Tesco are going to charge me 5p for them, you name it. Maybe it's my personality; too kind, too cautious, too oblivious? Everyone I know has been through this so-called "amazing feeling of love" where butterflies in the stomach are apparently amplified 10 times and you love someone more than you love yourself, but why have I got nowhere? Why do I feel so depressed about it? Is there a way to move on? If I work on myself and my inner happiness etc. will I become too independent that I won't notice a girl taking interest? I feel as if someone in my life would bring me genuine happiness, being lonely and being alone are things that are totally different but the lines between the two are becoming more blurred each day... what do I do?
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Don't be to hard on yourself , your still 20. You have plenty of time to find the one for you. You do as you feel for now. Just be you. Try to not stress about love so hard. At times its lonely but sometimes we gotta make do.
ReplyJust don't give up. Even though the other side seems full of love and happiness, it ain't. Being in love with someone else dosent bring you happiness. Being in love with yourself does.
ReplyLove can be the best thing in the world but it can also be pure fucking torture. Don't get stuck on the idea that being in love will make you feel amazing and solve all your problems. I think you should work on yourself and your inner happiness, for yourself! I'm 20 myself and the last thing on my mind is trying to find love because I don't want it at the moment. We are so young, this is the time to have fun and live care free. Don't let the fact your not in a relationship drag you down. Trust me your future holds years of different relationships and you will find the right person. But these are the years where you don't reallllyyy need it. Enjoy life! :)
ReplyI think if it hasn't come along is because great things take time so just be patient. I rather spend these years single enjoying myself and doing everything that makes me happy so, later on, I can actually be both emotionally and mentally prepared to have a healthy relationship with someone I truly love and loves me back. I don't want to spend my 20's on guys who certainly are not prepared and just want to "hang-out" without any commitment. Trust me that only leads to heartbreaks and that's no good for you.
Instead, travel, explore, do everything you have always wanted the right girl will come along. Just keep that in mind whenever you're feeling down =)
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