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I have been doing wrong things since day one. I have lied. I am seeing two guys. The first guy I laid my eyes one from a while ago. We hit it off and it, in reality, is the one that has hooked. The second guy, he is older than me by 3 years and he is mature in a sense. However, he can be easily upset. I have been seeing him more than the first guy. We attend the same school, and the first guy is an intern somewhere far away. I want to stop playing around. Both of them make me happy for a while. In my parents' eyes, the first guy is my "boyfriend" as they have spent time with him. Guy #1 likes to hang out with me his "girlfriend" and only wants to please me. Guy #2 is cool but sometimes is stuck in his way and I feel like I go out of my way to get him to call me or even text. I am always the one to call him first, and I show him affection first. I want to stop being like this. I need advice as to what to do.
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I suggest you go with Guy #1, because the way you describe the other guy makes it seem like a one way relationship. You NEVER want to be the only one making an effort, or it's never going to work out.
ReplyHonesty. If you continue to lie you will be the one hurt by it most. Coming clean will help you move to a better place where you can find a more sincere love. With Guy #1 you have to tell him, with Guy #2 you can probably text saying you don't want to hang out anymore. But Guy #1 deserves the truth. Which means the end of that relationship. My guess is you used Guy #2 to sabotage what you have, or because you are uncertain of what you want. Either way, you will need some time to work on yourself.
ReplyTake some time to just think. Really think hard. Think about the pros and con of each guy, think of the first time you met them think of how they make you feel. Just take a long time to think about who matters more and makes you feel like a million bucks. Ultimately, you should be your number one priority. Do what makes you happy. Put your needs above all else. I believe in you. Things will work out I promise.
ReplyWho gives you butterflies every time you think about them or their names pops up on your phone? Who do you think about first thing you wake up in the morning or last thing you go to sleep at night? Remember, you can't always stay in your comfort zone and you may make the wrong decision. Guy #1 or #2? Who knows? But make sure whatever you pick, you picking them because it makes YOU happy and not anybody else.
ReplyDont lie as it will be bad for you in the end just go with the guy you see your future to be and tell him the truth that you were just confuse what to do before and now you want to have a fresh start with no lies and only truth :)
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