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I have been in a relationship for over a year now, and I am starting to doubt it. It isn't the guy at all, it is me. I have always had commitment issues because I always fear they will hurt me so I never opened up to anybody. Now that I have i regret it, I guess i am looking for an escape. it somewhat feels like im trapped in a relationship because i fear nobody else will love me or ever want to be with me again. I flirt with others on text because it reminds me that others are interested, it sounds horrible and I feel gross by it, but I lack confidence so by getting attention from others is somewhat rewarding. I fear not being able to be the best person I am. Just a side note, there are other issues within the relationship like he is controlling blah blah but i won't bore you with that just yet.
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If you're not committed enough to not text others, then he's not the one. And that's not your fault or his. He's just not the one. So swallow that fear , and break up with him or you'll just be dragging something on that's truly tiring.
ReplyBut how do I do this? I'm already in way too deep, my family love him, I've met his family. I suppose I always just settled for the idea that I'll never be unhappy but I will never be truly happy. Ps. This is my post, I just didn't have an account when I wrote it.
Reply(Same commenter) You're never in way too deep. If this is making you truly unhappy, then tell him. Talk to him about it. Talk your feelings out, and if that doesn't work if all is lost. If you've tried everything, then just let go.
ReplyI can't bring myself to do it, I think I have to just get on with it and one day hopefully happiness will just click
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