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There’s two guys who give me the exact same fuzzy feeling inside and leaping heart when I see them, speak to them and generally just around them. It’s been for nearly the past 3 years with one of them and with the other the feeling has slowly come on over the three years and now it’s like the same intensity. The first guy, I knew I liked from day 1, I’m pretty sure that liking grew and grew , maybe even to unrequited love, but now I feel nothing but warmth toward him, no actual feelings yet the strange fuzziness and leaping heart I felt is still the same. The other I always considered simply a friend, but the feeling I get around him has intensified to how I feel around the first guy. I’m so confused.
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If you are a teenager this is completely normal, some feelings for people develop and grow, some crash and burn. If you aren't a teen this occurrence is usually less common and may appear abnormal to you and to others. For one of the guys you said you liked him since day one? That to me is a little strange and can compare to liking someone for their looks or money, the other you developed feelings for over three years. That seems like a more "like them for their personality" type thing which would be better then the latter.
The point is see which one is available, or single if you want to phrase it that way, and act on your feelings. However if their both single do the eenie meenie minie moe thing. See which one you like better and if it doesn't work out with one move to the other.
You could also just strait up ask them if they like you back, it would be much easier if you did it like that but that depends on the person. Sorry this is all the advice I could pump out right now.
ReplyThere is only one person I like and I don't know why because I don't even know him, but I feel as if I do somehow.
I can tell what he is feeling or can see it in his eyes without him saying a word.
Strange...
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