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Lately, I have been feeling like my male teacher has a thing for me. I am in high school and he is a teacher assistant. So basically a group of kids and I in my class go in a separate room to take tests because of our anxiety during tests. So this assistant teacher, let's call him Mr.B comes in the room with the group of students and I. So I was asking for clarification on this question and he was not really like helping me reword the question. So I was like whatever and guessed. The bell rang and I was stuck on one question, so I just guessed cause I literally had no clue. Aside from the story, I hate it when teachers test you on topics that were never discussed in class. Anyways, I left my things in the other class and since my teacher has no class 5th period, she left. So it was just Mr.G and I in the classroom alone. And he was like do you want to go over your answers since you did not get the chance to and I was like okay sure since all we were doing in my next class was watching a movie. So he hands me my test and I was going to another table and he goes, sit here with me that's why I pulled up a chair for you. And I was like uh okay. So I felt kind of awkward cause he was just watching me as I was taking my test. So I like asked him for clarification on a question and I told him everything I knew, and he eventually helped me get to my answer. But he like checked all my answers and even wrote in an answer for me which felt very weird. And prior to this happening, I was taking notes in class and all of the sudden he was like oh i think you dropped something, and then he stuck a note on my paper. And basically, him telling me how he appreciated me redirecting the class on topic, which is not weird at all but what I did find weird was that he gave it to me in the middle of class and how he could not have just said that on my report card or something. After the test he walked me to my class to clear my attendance even though he could have easily just written me a pass. idk if i'm over analyzing, I just want to know if I need to distance myself and maybe not go to him for help anywhere. Should I tell someone, am I overreacting?
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Doesn't really seem like a threat or anything, but if YOU truly feel uncomfortable, then distance yourself
ReplyIdk it's just weird cause I am the only student he does this to. And also, during class he will just stare at me, and It's so awkward cause I know but I can't do anything. He's a great person, but don't you think that's a little weird?
ReplyYes, but unfortunately unless you have proof he's harassing you the school board won't do shit :/ but I believe you could change classes if it came down to it
ReplySo I'm not overreacting?
ReplyNot really I would feel uncomfortable as well. He's being too friendly
ReplyI'm going to keep it real. You are overreacting.
Replyidk it just did not feel right for him to help me so much. I felt weird and uncomfortable. I don't want him to lose his job, but if he does it again I will confront him about it and tell him how I feel uncomfortable.
ReplyWho are you to tell her she's overreacting? You weren't there... Don't speak with so much conviction. Your advice could get her hurt.
ReplyI don't think you are overreacting at all. I think he is being too friendly and inappropriate. I don't believe you should tell anyone in administration just because you don't know for sure if his intentions are bad. Just make sure that you're nowhere alone with him (classroom, parking lot, gym? Idk) . You never know what could happen. Be safe.
ReplyTrust your instincts. You have a right to feel comfortable and to be safe. If I were in your situation, I would either ask the teacher assistant to back off the next time he did anything that made me feel uncomfortable (and escalate if he didn't back off), or speak to the teacher directly. Whatever the specifics of the situation or of someone's intentions, if it's serious enough to be interfering with your learning, it's serious enough to be addressed.
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