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So mean and this guy I was dating for a couple months broke up and it's been almost a year now since we last talked. Recently though he's been talking to my bestfriend in a mutual way. I thought that if he was talking to my bestie then I could talk to him to as a friend because that's all I want: to be his friend but he ignored me which made me feel really embarrassed, confused and annoyed. Can someone tell me why he might be ignoring me? And what should I do?
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Break ups are complicated and not everyone adjusts at the same speed. In a best case scenario, he is talking to your best friend because he made that connection while with you and it is normalizing the break up in a way that makes him feel stable. That connections he made during the relationship haven’t fallen apart in the aftermath.
The best thing you can do is give him space, but keep contact up with the best friend. You can let it be known that you are open to talking to him and that you are ready for a different relationship than when you were dating, but you shouldn’t press the issue. Additionally, take the time to make sure you are ready for it to be just a friendship because it is not always an easy transition and it can sometimes hurt even more to be around the person knowing it will only be at the friendship level. If you are prepared for that, then I wish you the best of luck and I really hope this works out for you.
ReplyThanks the advice I appreciate it
ReplyI assume you are a female? As a male I can tell you he must have been hurt with the break up a lot as I've been in that situation where I could talk to her friend but felt awkward around the ex as I still had feelings for her.
ReplyThank you for the feedback
ReplyMay I know how long did it take you to move on? Because I am a female and I have a mutual connection with a guy for a year. We sometimes treat each other like we are in a relationship. Then, one time I stood him because I was scared to meet him for the first time. Yes, it's ldr. He became cold and we didn't talk for like 3 years and he kept on blocking and unblocking me for who knows how many times, every time I tried to ask how he is. -.- I am so confused. Like, if he still likes me, why not tell? I am not a mind reader. I need words also. I don't want to jump into conclusion that he still is if he has already moved on. Somehow frustrating honestly.
Replywhat’s your name?
Replyhi
ReplyThe beginning was very lovely with my ex, we made the best couple in the neighborhood, we lived like we would never leave each other. suddenly after one of his long time vacations everything went sour, he made me feel worthless, had no respect, played mind games also made me feel everything was my fault when things go wrong. he took no responsibility for his actions, it took all of my strength to get rid of him after i contacted a hacker who helped me hack his phone and programmed all his phone activities including calls, chats and text messages to my own phone, only then did i see the reason for his abnormal attitudes towards me, he was cheating on me with his coworker and was also planning to bring her home while he ditch me. Now that I know the truth I feel so much better.. you can contact this hacker via email ''hackingloop6@gmail . c o m'', if you are having trust issues in your relationship.
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