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My boyfriend recently broke up with me. It all went downhill after it became a long distance relationship.
He said he was only going to get busier and wouldn’t be able to spend time with me. He says he’s stressed out and depressed. He still loves me and he knows he’s being selfish and even though he’s not sure, he still thinks a break up is the answer.
We’re both unable to move on from each other. And yet, getting back together isn’t one of the choices as of now. I don’t know what to do.
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I know that feeling when u just can't get over someone wayyyy too well. My advice is to go and join something new like a club or sport or something (ik it sounds cheesy) just to take your mind off him for a bit. Also it helps direct your mind away from a breakup if you are trying out something you've never tried before.
ReplyI was thinking that too. But I’m just not ready yet, right now I’ve lost all motivation to do anything. I wear a mask and I go to work, and when i’m all alone the tears just won’t stop. But thank you do much for the response
ReplyI also know that feeling, my Gf broke up with me about two weeks ago, it seems as like we can't let each other go, we talk everyday still, stay up all night talking, All I can think of is her and how she is doing. Like me you need to remember that as hard as it is not, there is light at the end of the tunnel, and everything will be fine. It just might take awhile.
ReplyThank you so much. I hope things will get better for you too.
ReplyNo problem anytime. Thank you for your kind words as well.
ReplyBreakups are always hard and the pain isn't going away overnight so just be patient, give yourself some time to think about you and focus on activities that you have always wanted to do, that way you'll meet new people and you'll discover a whole new side of you. That is going to keep your mind off from him.
Also try as much not to have too much contact with him if he's dealing with depression that is going to weight on you and for no good reason. So give each other space and time. Hope everything works out for you, have a lovely day.
ReplyThank you so much. You’re right, and I’m the only one that can help myself right now.
ReplyHappy to listen to anybody who's in need of it. You're a great girl that deserves happiness remember that =)
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