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So I’ve been in a relationship for almost 2 years and never been unfaithful or looked at other guys, i love my partner very dearly, even though sometimes it’s hard to see a future together. However recently this guy at work has been flirting with me and he is also in a relationship and now has 2 kids, however me and him have some strong lust and tension when we’re talking and messing around, I keep thinking about him a lot and he makes me feel happy at work and he always makes me feel good about myself and also said he wouldn’t kick me out his bed in a morning, and recently he’s been saying he Will find out where I live and comeback to my house and say to my partner that I’m his girl and see how he acts as a joke (not being serious) and then he questioned me about my partner alittle and said that he’d only seen him breifely once and wanted to see him again, I’m so confused and I just wanna talk to him more and Be around him at work, is this bad? I don’t know what to do please help what would you do?
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hmmm. difficult situation, for sure. i would encourage you to ask yourself these questions. 1. are you "in love" with your partner of two years? 2. are you "in love" with your work friend? 3. put yourself in the other's scenario (i.e. how would your partner feel, how would your work friend's partner feel, how would your work friend's kids feel)
if it is love, chase it.
if it is just a feeling because youre occasionally unhappy, you should consider the consequences.
hope this helps!
ReplyWell... Do you truly love your partner? It's totally possible to lust for others, but if you truly love your partner, then that's all that matters.
We can never stop the first thought that comes to our mind, or predict what it will be. All we can do is decide how to proceed with that thought. I might lust for someone I see out of instinct, however, I turn it around by saying to myself "my wife is even prettier than she is" and just propagate my adoration and love for my wife. Instead of paying attention to my first instinctual reaction. It all comes down to changing the way your brain is wired, honestly.
ReplyI would say yes and no about this being bad... The reason I say that is bad is because he is testing you this guy at work. To see how far he can get you into bed. Maybe he is not having enough sex or tension with his gf and is trying on you since you seem like an easy target... no offense im just saying because you are flirting back with him so your giving him a reason to keep going...which right there is a big "no no" in a relationship for both of you....This would ruin your relationship with your bf because if this keeps going its not just going to ruin you, its going ruin 3 other people as well... the guy at work, his gf and your bf.....Now the good thing about this is your releasing this now and confused wanting to help because you dont want to hurt anyone(I hope lol), so its an easy answer that you should already know the answer is your actions speak louder.... if you feel like your losing that touch with your bf then break up with him or at least talk to him about your feeling and see how to fix it or work on it, you got to give him a chance at least out of all of this..... If you cant break up with him, then stop the flirting. You are probably missing that spark in your relationship, and all you need to talk to your bf and work on it and give him a chance, because i'm assuming he has no idea how you truely feel. How are you suppose to make a relationship last if you don't express your self first? Don't let you emotions blind you form your heart...
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