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So me and a long-time friend had an odd conversation that lead into my friend talking about him being a Little and his experiences in the Caregiver/Little lifestyle? Probably a better word for that. Anyways, it lead to me discussing how being a caregiver has always had a certain appeal to me but I have no experience, no idea what I'm doing, and we kinda agreed to tentatively start a platonic mommy dom little boy thing. Again, I don't know what I'm doing. I'm intrigued, I think this might be nice. But I don't want it to be a full time thing as I fear seeing my friend as a different person when he is in a little headspace. if anyone knows of good resources for a beginner platonic caregiver or just had some advice in general, I desperately need it.
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He sounds like he intends to sexually exploit you.
You are very naive and it's fairly obvious that he's just building up gradually to some sort of weird sexual set up.
Don't agree to anything just to be nice, you are in a very vulnerable situation.
It's probably best to cut him out of your life altogether.
Why do people have to be into stuff like BDSM? It's not enjoyable really. It's not cool, just stupid.
I don't do anything anyone wants me to just to be nice.
ReplyIt's not stupid it's just not enjoyable for you. People have different tastes.
ReplyIt's a fashion.
Loada crap, like FWB.
ReplyIt's a sexual preference that has been around for a long time. FWB is another term for casual sex or no strings attached which have also been used much longer than the FWB tag has been around.
ReplyNeither are normal, they are exploitative.
It doesn't matter how long it's been around.
ReplyI'm not doing this just to be nice. I would do this if he wasn't a friend, but that's much more for me than for him. I want to try this, and he has made it clear that if it's not for me, or I'm uncomfortable with anything, then it doesn't have to happen. I just want to ask other people to help me get on my feet with this since I'm supposed to take care of him, not the other way around, so I want to manage my initial hesitations or insecurities as much as I can on my own with advice from others with more experience.
ReplyYou wanna make life complicated.
There's friends, lovers, life and laughing to be had.
These pervs need professional therapy, instead, they try to save money and normalise it at the same time.
Don't get dragged into it.
ReplyI don't mean that you have weird tendencies, OP.
You've got better things to do than entertain this weirdo "friend" of yours.
ReplyYou might be best asking on a dedicated forum for something like this. I'm not sure how many people here will be able to help with this type of thing. You never know though!
ReplyIf that’s your true opinion, you are doing it wrong. Get out of your head and have some fun.
ReplyIf neither of you are in any kind of commited relationships outside of your friendship. I don't believe this is an issue. There will be no complications.
Its somewhat team work and if you both have good communication skills, then set boundaries together. Acknowledge what's comfortable and what's not between you both. Ensure it's consentual and there's mutual respect on both sides.
To do this, you need to be secure within yourself and this applies to your man friend. If both of you are excessively insecure,jealous and get attached it will not be uncomfortable and healthy. Realistically speaking, we're all human beings with emotions..some more passionate than others. It takes strength in character and you might kind of have to dissociate yourself( detach). Like having a double life ordeal. Otherwise, it won't work out.
Nothing wrong with being kinky and trying out new sexual experiences. Just as long that it's safe, enjoyable and no one gets their heartsbroken, it's fine.
I would like to suggest that you speak with others who have a decent amount of experience with this. It can give you a better idea with what you're actually getting yourself into. Do your own research too for additional information/advice.
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