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I care for a lot of people. I have helped all my best friends when their dads died, or when they wanted abortions. I cared and showed upmost support, because I love my friends. They are my second family. I don't know what I would do without them. Probably be in a ditch.
But when I asked for help through my worst moments last year, I get an "oh" and a "don't cry" and they call for about 5 minutes and hang up. I didn't want anything from them. Nothing, no money or gold or clothes or food. I just wanted them to be there for me. But they were not. They carried on walking and blank me when I sat alone reading. I went to see them after a breakup, I took them out to a cake shop when they were on their periods.
All I wanted to do was show them love, and when I ask if they want to go to the cinemas when I was ill-They blanked me and went elsewhere.
They didn't show any affection, and I don't know if its because they have never been in a situation like it, or if they have something troubling them. I would be really sorry if I piled anything on them if they have shit going on at home-but they didn't because I'm close with their families and we all know eachother and all help eachother. I just didn't understand why. Even if it is a simple text of "Are you okay? Do you want anything?" But I'm alone. I'm left out.
Am I piling too much on them? Am I not supportive? Are they not supportive?
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You are a really caring and thoughtful friend, I am sorry that they did not support you through your tough times, be clear to them about everything and see what they say.
ReplyYeah, on a previous post, I kept getting comments saying "I'm putting too much pressure on my friends" and that "they shouldn't deal with my problems" so I took it down. I though what I said was okay, but I got judged for not being supported. Thank you, and I will be clear to them!
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