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I had a bad break up with my ex- boyfriend in college who is a narcissistic sociopath.I found out he was cheating on me by having multiple relationship and things went bad after I confronted him.I wanted to end the relationship so badly but he blackmailed me by saying that he will spread rumours about me to destroy my life.I still broke up with him and he did tortured me by spreading false rumours about me and made me look like I am the bad guy in this case. Everyone supported him while I was suffering alone as people believed the rumours he spread. One day, some of the people close to me realize he was playing the victim the whole time and discovered his true colours.As I was keeping my distance from him he still did many awful things to me like screaming at me in public, humiliating me and even make false accusations on me. Since I was an introvert it was very easy for him torture and even separated all my friend from me. After like few months, I realize that avoiding him as much as I can is not the best solution as Im still being pestered and mentally tortured by him.He did all this because I didn't want to believe in his fabricated lies and because I ended the relationship.So,one day I decided to play a role of a fool to fool the fool that thinks they are fooling me.Its better to keep your enemies closer. So, I stopped avoiding instead I pretend as though I believe his lies and do talk to him nicely everytime he approached me.Ever since then he stopped torturing me and promised to treat me better as a friend. Everyone thought we are back together after all the fights,humiliation and chaos.They started to judge me silently and some even stop being my friend. I couldn't explain to people why am I doing this as I was afraid he would find out and also because I just want to have peaceful life and not being tortured by him anymore.He is so sneaky and evil. People don't know the things I went through.Since we have to see each other in college, I thought maybe the best solution is to pretend as though he managed to fool me until college ends. I feel sad that people are judging me without knowing my reason. So, is it wrong of me for doing this? I dont know how else to deal with narcissistic sociopath.
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