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How can people get off on humiliating their spouses? That's what she's been doing. Fooling around with some guy that's in an open relationship and they have made a game out of making fun of / humiliating / mocking their significant others. I guess he had saved a message on snap chat that she had sent about almost kissing me with the taste of him still in her mouth, "LOL". I found this on her phone after being intimate. I was just plugging it in for her so she had it in the morning. It was my birthday. He was still messaging her.
She says it was just a one time thing but he still wants to be friends. She loves me and our family but feels she settled down too young and now isn't sure of she wants to be married or... or single and mingle, if you will. She's intrigued by his open relationship.
There is unrefutably no way I could make that work for her. Perhaps when I was younger but she's spent the last 10 years telling me I am all she wants. I've spent the last 2+ years relishing in my wonderful life. Too comfortable. Too complacent. My head won't shut up. My heart won't stop pounding.
She's taking a night. Staying with a friend. I have a list of "demands" in order to try to build trust again.... if she decides that is what she wants to do. My demands might be too high she says. I don't care. I've been here before and know what I need to try to make another go of it. If she can't meet those for even a little while there is no point of trying.
Talk more tomorrow. It's going to be one of the longest 24 hours of my life.
P.S. There is nothing explicit about this post and if you can't sense the pain and trauma in it you shouldn't be a moderator on this page.
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Sounds like itโs time to move on bro
ReplyI agree, it should sound that way. Hard to move on when through this all there is a damn voice in my head that keeps asking how we can make this work. Even if I move on I'll have to see her all the time. Not sure what would be worse at this point
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