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Have anyone ever someone your all and have them the world before. I mean do everything and almost anything for that person. Then they leave you and act like nothing never happened like you were nothing to them. I’m up thinking that I wasn’t enough. I love that person than I should have , but he didn’t feel the same for me. He just took everything away and left out of my arms and I don’t know how to let go. All my life I’ve gotten heart broken no one actually loved me before. I don’t know if I will ever find love again I don’t have hope anymore. Can somebody give me some advice to encourage me please I need some positivity or advice in my life rn.
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I actually understand you like reeeaaalllllllyyyy... I have once made someone part of my life. He was my priority and I always give him my time. But then one day he just left without a word. Nothing. I feel so sad and shattered deep inside. I deserve at least an explanation, right? But I've got none like I don't even deserve one. And that hurts me so bad. I've got pretty depressed and suicidal in the worse case.
But you know? I thought I was alone. A lot of times I felt like I am useless and that I should just die. I tried to commit suicide a couple of times too.
And then I stumble in this verse= 1 John 4:10
"And love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins."
Then I started to open up my mind and said to myself, "Yeah, you are not alone, Rose. You will not be born if you are not loved. You are born for a purpose to fulfill. You are born out of love from the greatest creator. This will be hard. This will be tough. But this might also mean that you are loved enough to be left alone for the best guy that deserves the love you can give."
Indeed the quote which I always read does make sense, "If someone leaves you, let them go. That is God's way of keeping you away from the person that He is setting aside for you. Someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved."
You will love once again... who knows it will be with the same person but version 2.0 ;) You see? That guy that left me came back once again asking for forgiveness and I told him I've already forgiven him a long time ago. He kept on saying sorry and that he knows he doesn't deserve my forgiveness because what he did was really bad. I've told him that everyone deserves forgiveness, and I started to forgive myself for giving you too much of my time and love before. We are friends now and he still likes me he said, but I don't know. I just feel like in his current situation, he doesn't deserve the #me.version3.0.
It was a hard fight. It was a battle between my brain and my heart. I was exhausted mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. But as the days went by, accepting the fact that he is gone, made me strong and stronger each and every day. I've come to realize that I can pick up myself with my faith that I am not alone and that there is someone from above that keeps on cheering on me. That I can be better and that one day, that guy that left me will ask for my forgiveness and I'll let him see how happy I am without him ( in which it happened just recently after 3 years lol).
You deserve better, dear. Far more better than to be taken for granted. You deserve a guy who also makes you his priority and loves like the way you do.
Don't lose hope. Don't give up. You will never know how far you will go and how strong you will be after this inner calamity.
Don't give up on love also. Someone out there is also craving for the love that you can give- hoping and praying to God to meet you soon (his dream girl).
Btw, when I started praying to God about helping me be the best version of myself, I've kept on dreaming early in the morning about a guy who has been waiting for me. And the hints are there. I guess I will be meeting him soon. <3
If you need someone to talk to, I am here to listen. Just message me. ^_^ God bless you.
ReplyTHANK YOUU SOO MUCHH!!<3. I really needed that you actually made me feel better and you have me thinking on a image of a better me. God bless you too.
ReplyNo worries. I am cheering on you. I am hoping and looking forward to the better version aiming for the best version of yourself. Life is hard. But as they said, "No pain, no gain." And this gain is your power to surpass what will come in your life in the future. Have faith and believe in yourself. Love yourself, pamper yourself and give time to yourself- which I do in those 3 years and still doing now. As they said, "What you are is what you attract." So that means... The better you are, the better you attract. <3 But don't settle for "better" when you can get the best. Because you deserve the best! ^_^ God bless you.
If you need someone to talk to or advice, don't hesitate to message me. ;)
ReplyIt's going to be okay. Take to a deep breath in.......... now exhale. You are enough and you will find your soulmate someday. Don't give up hope yet because there is still some time.
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