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So I started college a few weeks ago and I love the environment and the people I’ve met but I don’t know I’ve been feeling sad for no reason. I can laugh with my friends and I can see my self having a good time but I go back to being sad and all I think about is crying. Even if I’m with people I’d feel lonely, very lonely and I then would feel lost. I would ask myself “why are you sad?” But I can’t seem to answer that question. I can’t make the feeling go away all I feel is this sadness where I lay in bed and I just start doubting myself, I start questioning who I am. It’s been difficult for me to talk to different people but in the end I just feel really useless and that I don’t matter to anyone at all. Like I’ve felt that since high school but I just ignored the feeling. I don’t know what to do....
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At least your not the only one I've been going though something like that to and i know what i'm going to say will be cliche and what not but it will get better and you should open up to one of your friends it'll make you feel so much better. What i'm trying to say is don't be afraid to talk to someone tell someone how you feel.
ReplyI feel this more than you know. I doubt every choice I make and feel like life is passing me by. I think a big part of the struggle is being in a new environment and being around people that don't truly know you. The world can seem like an endless mountain you have to climb, but it gets so much easier when you submerge yourself into something. A club, a sport, a hobby. It all becomes less daring when you feel you have a purpose, AND when your around people who care. People who wonder why you didn't show up to the practice, or get excited when they see you walk into a meeting. Knowing that people acknowledge your existence is such a big necessity. Making friends can be hard, but thats where a social periodical activity can help. Don't forget that everything doesn't have to fall into place immediately. All good things take some time, so don't feel like you have to have everything together right now! College is meant to cultivate the best version of yourself, so if you can, try to see it as less of a task and more of an opportunity. If all else fails, your family will always have your back. Also know you're not going through this alone, and remember reaching out to someone, even if it seems scary, could change your life. I wish you all the best, and I'm always here if you need to talk.
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