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Around a year ago I moved with my mums side. I met a family friend and instantly saw something in him. Around 4 months ago he confessed he had something and can’t see others because of Me. I immediately said yes as I also had something towards him, it was strong aswell. Now around 2 months anytime we see each other I offer we go to eat and he says no and gives reasons like Heaney not hungry or he has eaten. Other times I visit my family and they say he is coming over and if it is 9am and he wakes up at 8:30am I ask if he’s eaten he says yes. Yesterday we were together with one of his cousins and I asked him to get food and he said he’s in a diet. But we were together from 9am until around 10pm and he didn’t eat anything at all. I am worried his “diet” is starving himself, he isn’t fat, but not thin, he is perfect. Yesterday I incouraged him to have a sandwich or a salad, something small. He just said he isn’t hungry. I have told him so much, but yet anytime we see each other. He isn’t hungry. Is he starving himself? Should i have a proper conversation about it? Help!!!
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I'm also wondering why was that. Just Ask him why he always avoid your invite to eat. And just be chessy like "I want to eat now with you but you always avoiding my invite, please tell me why is always that." I'm also like that, I don't eat much with my bf, or I can't finished my food. But he frank me front of why I'm always like this, I'm not fat and I don't diet. I don't have reason, I just can't finish my food or feel easy to full, but I did my best to eat because of my bf's remind. But I don't know that there a guy like this. I thought I'm just a girl, can't eat much. Or else he have a reason. You must ask him before it's too late
ReplyThere is something up though, as my family is very close to him. He goes over to my auntys basically everyday. And because they always have a lot of people there, big meals come with it too. And he eats a lot, but now he doesn’t eat as much. He tells me he is in a diet, and I have asked him if he has eaten twice today, he has told me not yet.... I don’t know..
ReplyHe could be anorexic. Or self punishment, self loathing? Too hard on himself? He needs to talk about his unhealthy attitude about food. Maybe he doesn't want hand outs?
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