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You are still single, you are on early 30s, while most of your friends either have children or getting married.
I'm trying to chill but.. I can feel the... PRESSURE!!!!
Where are you my husband to be?
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ReplyLove this . See , a little humour and people smile 😂
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ReplyIf a woman said the same thing as a joke, different story...
ReplyNot everyone is built for the life of a wife or as a mother. You see all these women having babies just to get the WIC or free food or to do their work around the house when they're older. Yet they leave them in their cars, abuse them, neglect them, and yet there are those who are unable to have children who would love them in the right way. Those women will see a child being mistreated and then threatened by the "Don' you tell me how to raise my child; I brought them into this world and I can take them out." This is not funny, this is a threat, and a crime. Then there are those women who jump into marriage ill prepared or too soon. those who enter thinking they love the person, only to be subjected to domestic abuse, or learning that their partner was not who they thought they were. Living with another person takes a toll, words fly, anger ensues, and pretty soon you're left desperately trying to hang onto your sanity while debating rather to hang in there or get out. Sometimes, one may not be given a choice, it's made for oneself. And if you have kids and divorce, it somehow makes everything worse. That's why it is better to know a person, take your time, make sure of what you both want before making a life choice that will affect you both. The important people in your life, family/friends, should understand that, and if for some reason they don't: it's your choice, be sure you're ready and be happy with what you choose. :) And being single isn't so bad...more money to splurge on yourself and not the husband or children ;)
Replydon't look, it will come. in the time being concentrate on building confidence and self-assurance. love, marriage and having children are all life choices - they do not guarantee ur survival or define your existence. the quality of your life involves more than just attaining a relationship, having children and 'settling down'. focus on giving and contributing to society, and eventually those characteristics you build up will eventually catch the attention of the one you're meant to be with.
ReplyDon't be desperate and enjoy your time with yourself. Being alone, means that the love of your life is not there to judge your every move and to manage your life decisions partially with the pretext it's for your own good.
Also, when you get horny, no one gets to tell you if you can get off or not. When you want to go, you just go. When you want to hop on an airplane, you just can. You don't have another person that will get you pets which you didn't ask for that will not allow you to plan a trip ever because the pets have to be in a better hotel that the none you are freaking getting overseas..
You don't have to deal with the bullshit that is monogamy where your partner gets to claim your sexuality to keep it safe on a box. Because they don't feel like having sex fucking ever. No, sex only happens planned for bed time. No expontaneous sexual rush because when you try, you will be stopped and told "we have more important things to do" which is such a great turn on together with, we can do it a bed time. So in other words, something that was supposed to be all about the passion and the moment, becomes something as boring and as planned as taking a piss or a shit. It's just sad.
So you go out there and enjoy your life however you want to. What others do with their life should never rule or define any bit of your reality.
God bless you and have a wonderful long life.
ReplyHey, it's hell being married. Enjoy life while you can
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