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Hey. Just wanted to leave a positive little not for you guys. Trust me and I know it sounds cliché when I say that everything that's happening right now is preparing you for greater, for growth, for change that'll leave you unfathomably bewildered. If you feel alone, trapped, stuck in the routine of your daily work, don't get discouraged. Find beauty in the little things. Look at yourself a year ago. Can you believe how much you've changed? Can you believe the beautiful people that have entered your life? You don't see it on the daily but I promise you its there, the progression is there. And while you might sit in your room, asking yourself why, what you've done, why no one likes you, the day you feel overwhelmingly filled with joy. The day you can finally let go of all that hurt, betrayal, everything you bottle up inside, you'll find a peace like no other.
Feel. Don't be afraid to feel every ounce of it, because not doing so would be suppressing it, ignoring the problem and that's not solving anything. Believe me when I say you need to feel it all. If your heart feels shriveled, weak, abused, let me tell you YOU HAVE VALUE. To anyone who ever told you otherwise, who took advantage and took the love they couldn't give back, they weren't worth it and you've probably left a greater mark on them than you can imagine. Because people can be selfish, but when we give a selfless love to others, one that doesn't ask for return, one that pours itself into others, that love doesn't go unnoticed. And that love will come back, in chunks or in small progressions. You will start to feel whole again, you'll feel your stomach tingle from within, butterflies of joy and you'll feel overwhelmed with its beauty.
I've held it all in, i've done the whole defense mechanism, "it doesn't bother me, i'm strong." But when you've had too much and the tears come rolling down and you cant quite control them that's when you realize. All those feelings you had bottled up inside don't go away, they pile up. But when you feel the down pour, accept you have healing to do THATS when true growth starts to occur. Don't isolate yourself. Surround yourself with people who believe in this growth, because you're worth it. You're worth all the love you've given away. Imagine how many people you've blessed with all that help. Now its time for you. Take steps and don't discourage yourself, you're healing and you have to be easy on yourself. Be careful with the energy you let in, let light come in your world and you'll slowly start reflecting that light in all areas of your life. In your work, relationships, your routines, school, whatever it may be.
Good luck friends, I believed in myself, and I hope you do too.
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Very positive and uplifting! Thank you for this!
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