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I apologize in advance for going on about this topic. As I do realize that there are more important issues to be answered to. But I just sincerely don't know what to do in this situation... So I recently had a friend "break up." They were just toxic in general and never let me have any more friends. They always "clinged" onto me and wanted to be with me 24/7. Yet they were also just plain rude sometimes. Any who luckily that ended after quite a lot of years. Now I have trust issues I guess. So whenever a friend tries face timing with me, or calling me I get annoyed. Like I don't even know why. I just prefer to spend my time studying, watching a movie, or playing on my computer. As I stated in the last relationship we'd always call, and I'd just never get to leave the call or else I'd be yelled at. So now I'm not scared? I just want time for myself but I don't know how to tell them that. If I were just to say "no I don't want to chat" then I'd look really bad but it's the truth.
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ReplyI had a toxic relationship like that too. She wouldn’t let me have any other friends until I got other people to support me and understand the situation I was in. I finally confronted her without any extra “cat drama” and just let it be. We don’t hate each other now we just don’t talk. :]
ReplyI had this kind of "friend", too.
She couldn't get off my hair.
24/7 needing constant attention.
I had to block her in any messaging service.
Soon she ran to my house, kept yelling in the gates or banging on it.
And I couldn't take a walk, she'd look for me and come after me just to bother me with it.
When it was over, I felt relieved.
She was full of drama.
Wasn't a good person.
Desesperately exposed herself online (*not nude), but adding everyone on group chats, claiming to have a boyfriend to shoo away other guys, even poisoned the mind of many guys, yeah... nasty things.
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