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My birthday is coming up! Yay, I'm super excited! And naturally I am inviting my friends over for a party! Just some activities, dinner and a movie. I have a group of friends and I am going to invite them, plus some extra, except for one. Even though she always sits with us, I don't like her that much. This is because she is much younger, she is always gaming and she is never talking to us and because I think that she is just a little annoying. I am inviting two friends that never sit with us, but I think they are really funny and nice. So I kind of told them who is invited and then they asked me why that one friend isn't invited, I didn't know what to do, so I lied that I was only allowed to invite a certain amount of people.
But two problems occurred. First of all, one of my friends later said that I was excluding her, which is true, but I don't want to include her. And secondly, the biggest problem, what if someone isn't able to come. What do I do then? According to my lie I would invite the friend, but I just don't want to.
What do I need to do? Am I being selfish or am I standing up for myself? Should I include her, because it is nice? But I don't want to, and it is my birthday!
Please help me! Can you give me some advice?
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I would invite them, just to avoid any sorts of drama or maleficent thing going on tomorrow. I'll made myself look very busy if I don't want to talk with someone at the party.
ReplyI would tell the friend how you feel and be honest. If she is annoying or just bugging you, than maybe she isn’t really your friend. But telling her the truth is much better than lying about it. And it’s your party anyway, you can invite whoever and no one has the right to get angry at that.
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