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Why is everything wrong my fault? Why is every unfinished task is my fault? Why is your suffering my fault? Why should we be compared? Why should I endure your suffering? Why should we go through the same journey to make YOU feel better?
Why is it only you who is depressed? Why can't I complain of my stress? Why can't I complain of my simple headache? Why is me suffering a sin and not a normal right? Why is it me to always have to be thankful? Why can't you understand it's not about being thankful alone? Why can't I come to you when I need support? Why can't you be positive for once with me? Why do you have to make me ashamed of my self? Why do you have to make me feel horrible about everything? I hate how you know how to get me.
Why do you have to be such a tough mother?
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That might actually be projecting. Not in the past of course, I get that, but I thought I was coming from a much better place that you could be proud of.
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ReplyAs a person with a tough mom too, Im so sorry you've got this problem. It doesn't help if shes got priorities over you. Do you want to talk it out with me?
ReplyI head your pain and my heart goes out to you. The questions you ask of yourself may be questions your mother asks herself. We all have our own battles. That’s not to say that yours aren’t important; they are. You are.
With mothers, there seems to always be a “Mother Wound”. Sometimes it’s generations upon generations that have been passed down. Google it if you’d like. in keeping with that philosophy/theory, it doesn’t have to continue with you. You can begin to heal yours and stop the passing down of wounds. And by healing yours you can maybe help your mother heal hers. Talk with her. She might not even be aware of what she’s doing-that doesn’t make it fair to you, I know. You’re the child, the daughter—you should be being nurtured by your mother, right? I’d agree. But try to remember that you mother was (and still is deep down) a child. A daughter. Probably hurt by her own mother. Be there for yourself and be there for her. She’s your mother and I bet she loves you. Love one another. Help each other. Begin by talking with her. Maybe write to her if you don’t feel your words can be expressed openly and from a place of love. Ask her to write back to you. Sometimes writing helps us to face ourselves before we can face another.
I wish you the best.✨✨✨
ReplyThis sounds like my mom and hope we can get through it together. I was actually thinking of severing the connection with my family when I get older.
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