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Okay so here it goes. I've been with my bf for over a year. We got engaged(after he thought I cheated. Like a day after. Which I didn't but it feels like a trap) then I found out I was pregnant and now I don't know if I'm happy with him or not. I don't know if he's who I wanna be with for the rest of my life. I don't know if I can get passed his past. I don't know if he's gonna step up and be a good father or if he's always going to indulge in video games. I don't know if he'll respect me and lay off the pot. I don't know if he'll respect our child and not smoke around it. I don't know. He provides for me right now. As I lost my job and it's hard to get a job and I lost my car also due to not being able to afford the insurance so it's even harder to get a job with town being 15 miles away.. no a bus doesn't come out where I live. But if I leave my options are only kinda move 10 hours away with my mom. Move South away from my family(I have a friend) or mooch off my friends. Which I won't do. I have a hand tattoo so I can't get into fast food places either as visibile tattoos are not accepted for some reason(it's not offensive at all) but if ANYONE can give me advice on what to do please. Help. I don't really think this is where I belong.
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sounds like you are asking the important questions. you don't say how pregnant you are or if abortion is an option for you or not. so i am gonna assume the kid is on its way regardless. you'll find out eventually how your boyfriend is going to show up as a father, but it sounds like a lifetime commitment to him as a husband isn't the best choice for either of you right now. i don't know what is. can you feel in your gut what is, for both your kid and yourself? if you can feel it in your gut, trust that... and it might even not be any of the options you mentioned. kid comes first now, then you. good luck to you. hold onto your own dreams even if they have to be put on hold for 18 years or so. you're all worth it.
ReplyMove in with your mom, it’s gonna suck but you need to start thinking long term instead of short term satisfaction. You can’t take care of a baby if you still need to be taken care of. So take care of yourself first and get a job, get your car back and better yourself so that the next time you find a man he will be on your level and you can support each other instead of being in a toxic relationship that’s going no where. Don’t be afraid of being alone, even in a marriage you can feel alone. Make decisions you’re not going to regret because regret is like a poison, it won’t go away and will continue to eat at you until you die.
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