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So recently both my husband and I are unemployed and it has been that way since 2 weeks before Christmas when I lost my job and he had lost his the day before thanksgiving!! When it rains it pours... well that’s the story of my life. So here we are both unemployed we get through holidays and he finally got up and did something after 6 weeks and he found employment and now here I am hopelessly wishing I also had a job which would only cause us more problems right now because my car has been in the shop since 2weeks prior to thanksgiving!! Yeah another plus.... not really anyway here I am officially stuck!! Stuck in a whirlwind of a downhill run .... thinking it will never get better. I paid $35,000 for a house last year in the middle of nowhere I regret this... I can’t even get what I paid so I’m in a situation where I must do some updates with no income and the one income we just got isn’t even going to keep the power on come the 27th of this month... all I am doing is laying here in bed all day and night feeling sorry for myself and I am stuck!!! I usually smoke pot to help get by but after 1 month straight of no money coming in and no pot to smoke my anxiety has gotten out of control!!!
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look for jobs like crazy!! if you live where i live i could put you on definitely , How come ya lost ya jobs,
ReplyThe 1st one completely my fault I take full responsibility.... I was accused of something that was on true and it offended me badly and I reacted worse... like very badly with angry words.... but I learned from that and never again will that occur in my life, I still cannot believe I said what I said it was just mean maybe true but still mean, anyway one after that because after 6 weeks I didn’t fit and my 23 year old man child bass replaced me with a 17 year old, the throes was just 2weeks ago and again because I didn’t fit but this time it was after 4 hours and 44 minutes of training.... 4 was my lucky number until 2 weeks ago lol... so am truly at a loss feeling like the ones that I care for the most are only hurting because of me!!! And my dad never waste one opportunity to remind me!!! So I just don’t know what to do.... I don’t fit??? I don’t even understand what that means...
ReplyYou weren't stealing from others and living off them by doing illegal things ?
ReplyNo... just made profit of a bag of pot occasionally
ReplyWell, step one. Get out of bed and go. You have to do it eventually might as well start now (yes, this is hard.. I KNOW). If you have to take a loss on the house, do it.. at least start the process as the hole will get deeper. Take any job and keep looking for upgrades, be a very disloyal employee by doing what is best for YOU (not your employer, in finding a better job). Be honest with people, ask for help if needed (pride is luxury you can no longer afford). If the car is junk, sell for scrap and get a bike (or trade the repair shop for a working vehicle).
This is probably a tough read, it was for me in my time. I made it better (after a time of really bad) by following the stuff above. Ouch. The alternative however was WAY more painful so glad I did and it all worked out (less than a year later I have double the income and less debit than before).
ReplyYou are right... there’s only one thing above I cannot do is let go of my home I paid cash 💰 $35,000 and got a $1,500 morgagte of course it’s costing me more in the financial part but I only have one more year of $107 a month then I can sell it get a fresh start somewhere...
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