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so, recently there's this friend who bothers me a lot and im really anxious to confront her. you see, my friend and i both like k-pop (which is the reason why we've became friends, i like the groups pentagon, seventeen, nct, twice, shinee, got7, idle and april.. i know i didnt have to mention that but i just felt like i wanted to, sorry) but ever since ive expressed anything about it, she'll just flip out and get mad at me for no reason. i understand we have our own opinions but you shouldn't yell at someone because you have different opinions. but not only that, she copies me. i know i'll seem selfish and childish if i say this, but i've recently went to japan last month and i bought some kpop merch over there, when i showed her what i bought, the next day she shows me her amazon cart filled with almost EXACTLY everything i bought! i know that she has her own interests and its not my problem of what she buys, but it just weirds me out.. same with other stuff as well.. i wanna confront her and tell her to please stop, not only because shes copying and bothering me, but because she's using too much of her sisters money (i know its still not my problem, i know im nosy) i really need help with this.. im so anxious to confront her because i feel like our friendship will be broken.
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Something I have learnt from my own personal experience, is that you shouldn't have to deal with anyone's bs. If that friendship isn't working, try and talk it out with them. If it still isn't working, are they really worth your time? I had a friend, who caused different sorts of problems, but MY GOD, you don't understand how good it felt to get rid of her! All those problems and issues she had caused just, evaporated over a short amount of time, and this huge weight was just, GONE!
Yes, it was in different circumstances, but seriously, just think about how much you could benefit or lose from confronting them, and take actions to resolve your issue.
Hope this helps!
(If not, just ignore me, I won't ever know lol)
ReplyMost likely it is envy. She sees you as she wishes to be, thus the copying and anger when you like something different (her failure to be like you). Insecurity about our own worth can lead people to model another in the hope immitation will solve our self esteem issues.
See if observation validates this hypothesis, vould be complete crap.. but maybe not.
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