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"My body, my choice"
While the baby is in your body and using your body for support, it's not "your body."
"Its just a clump of cells"
Aren't we all? We are all in fact huge clumps of cells. Cells- the building blocks for life (as I remember learning in elementary school)
Also, have you seen a baby at 12 weeks? It looks like a baby. It IS a baby.
"The government shouldn't get involved in my reproductive choices"
THEN DONT GET PREGNANT
use a form of birth control instead of murdering babies.
I think the government should absolutely get involved, because, I dont know, IT IS MURDER
"It isn't murder"
Why not? You're ending a life. Stopping a heartbeat. Killing a baby.
"I wasn't trying to get pregnant"
Were you trying to have sex? Because Sex = Babies (rape is different, I know, we'll get to that) 100% of babies are the product of sex.
"No one cares about the babies in foster care/waiting to be adopted"
Said who?
"Pro-Life"
I find the name itsself a problem. Pro-Choice doesnt mean you're " Pro-Death"
"There are so many people out there that cant have kids and you're murdering yours"
It shouldn't be every fertile womens job to carry all the babies for the infertile women. So many kids that are waiting to be adopted. Go adopt.
"If it's legal, it should only be for rape victims"
Do you know how many false rape accusations there would be?! How many men would go to jail because a desperate woman didnt want her child.
"Only if its medically necessary"
Do you know how broad that is? How many women suffer from Postpartum depression? SOOO many ways to work around that.
"It should be illegal 100% of the time"
Yeah, that way women can smoke, drink, do drugs to try and kill the baby only to have a premature, addicted, and damaged baby. A desperate women WILL find a way. Also, legal abortions = safe abortions. Illegal abortion = unsafe abortions.
"Babies of rape victims can help them cope and get something joyful from something so negative"
Orrr, the mother will absolutely resent and beat the child.
All in all, I believe abortion isnt right and absolutely IS murder. Yet, I dont know all the circumstances that surround the person who is choosing it. However, I firmly believe you should be on a birth control method to have an abortion, you took precautions. Or know that it will kill the mother and/or child to continue the pregnancy. If you get an abortion without taking any precautions, no cares in the world, your tubes should get tied. Abortion should be legal, but shouldn't be a "normal" occurance.
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ReplyI agree 100% If you at in no position then adoption i s available.
ReplyQuestions:
Why do you care so much about what other people do with their lives, especially when it's not hurting anyone? What impact does it have towards your life?
What are you contributing to people's lives really and how are you helping them? You going to pay for everyone's birth control pills?
Don't you have your own life to worry about without hurting anybody?
What does a woman who chooses to have an abortion or not, have anything to do with you?
It's not affecting your life and you don't have to deal with the consequences, so what it to you?
If you're a female and if ever you fall pregnant and that's if you can, you can decide whatever the hell you want to do with your child. You can apply whatever you believe in to yourself.
However, don't go putting others down for choosing differently from you. If you're not going to really help people then, mind your own damn business.
ReplyJust expressing my opinions. My belief is that abortion IS murder, because it is. You're choosing to kill a person that inconveniences you. With that being said, the people the Ted Bundy killed didnt affect me, but I still find it wrong. I find school shooting that don't directly affect me heartbreaking. The "mind your own buisness" arguement is BS. If I'm walking down the street and see a man getting beat, believing he will be murder, I'm calling the cops or doing something about it. The arguement that "that is completely different" is also BS. You believe that careless abortions are justified as the murderer believes he is justified. You just look at it differently because the human you're killing is much smaller and not fully developed. Sorry I dont want to be in a world were a women gets pregnant (without taking precautions) and decides to kill that baby because SHE was careless. Therefore ending a life.
"Its not hurting anyone"
It's literally murdering a baby.
"How am I helping"
I'm sharing an opinion- didnt know it had to be helpful. But I am fostering to adopt.
"Paying for everyone's birth conrtol"
Most insurance will cover most if not all the cost of birth control. Plus condoms are cheap. You can get a 50pack for 9$
"Have your own life to worry about without hurting anybody"
If what I say is hurtful it's only because the person reading let's it be. Also again, murdering babies. My arguement isnt going to be "heyy.. uhmm, can you like not murder all those babies?"
"What does a women who chooses to have an abortion or not have anything to do with you?"
Once again, I believe it IS murdering babies. Am I suppose to sit back, be okay with women to carelessly murder babies so I dont hurt their feelings? No, it is murder. So, while it doesnt directly affect me, I still have a right to not be okay with murder.
"Not affecting your life... what's it to you?"
MURDERING BABIES. People that are so strongly pro-choice dont understand. Pro-life or people in the middle like me, believe it IS murder. Why should we be okay with murder?
"...You can decide whatever the hell you want to do with your child"
Yeah.. until after its born right? Can't beat them, give them meth, not let them go to school or let them drink. So, you can't do whatever the hell you want with you child.
I do what I can for the women who weren't trying to get pregnant and believe abortion is murder (because it is) I go to OB visits with the ones who don't have anyone else. I'm fostering right now with the intent to adopt. I do what I can to help, but I refuse to help the careless women, who took no precaution, knowing they could get pregnant. Just to end up murdering that child.
ReplyYou have the right to express your opinion as do I. Just don't force your opinions down other people's throats. You don't need to disrespect any woman who decides to get an abortion. If you disagree, then just disagree but then move on with your life. Sometimes, people make the wrong choices in getting an abortion, it happens. You have no idea the reasons behind why any young girl, women and so on gets an abortion. I don't under why you're trying to make anyone feel like sh*t for it and guilt trip them to think they're murderers. "Careless abortion" what specifically as an example is careless? What it's "murdering a baby"? It's only considered a baby when it has reached a certain stage. What if someones unborn child would of been severely ill and disabled etc... Would you want to selfishly bring a life into this world where they suffer for the rest of their life without being able to function normally? I think that's selfish to me. You should mind your own business, on what any pregnant woman decides to do with their body. You can give your suggestion but they don't have to accept your advice, just to clarify what I meant. If you see something wrong being done, of course do something to prevent harm to a living breathing human being. When it comes to another person's body,you don't have a say and shouldn't force people into anything with their bodies. Obviously, you can't do whatever you want to a living breathing child that's born. When it comes to an unborn children and abortions, women, their partners can decide what they want to do. "Sorry I dont want to be in a world were a women gets pregnant (without taking precautions) and decides to kill that baby because SHE was careless. Therefore ending a life." Well, if that's the case you better get off the planet entirely because people make mistakes as you do, I'm sure. Young girls especially make stupid choices and make mistakes all the time as do young boys. Do they deserve to be scolded because of it? No, but they can be educated and learn from it. Adults make mistakes and bad choices too, does anyone have the right to punish anyone for it, unless it's against the law. To repeatedly call it murder is pretty harsh. It would be like calling someone a murderer for pulling the plug on the person they love, life support, that's has been in a coma for years. What about the people who do assisted death for the terminally Ill because they physically are suffering and want to die. Are they murdering people too?
Not everyone has access to birth control, covered by insurance or, has it and is allowed to use contraceptives due to religious beliefs. Guess what, poor countries and people who are poor, keep having children. It becomes over populated to the point where children suffer from hunger, diseases and more. And they end up dying from a slow and painful death. In these cases, abortion wouldn't be a bad idea either. Murdering babies would be what China did years and years ago. It was called Female Infantcide, look it up. What it was is they murdered female babies that were living and breathing. This is what "murdering babies" would be.
If you consider it murder, why wouldn't all the women who gotten abortions go to jail? Why is it legal then in most countries? What about the death penalty in the USA, that's accepted.
That's great you help all the women who need help who don't want to get abortions and it's awesome that you're fostering in hopes to adopt.
"I refuse to help the careless women, who took no precaution, knowing they could get pregnant. Just to end up murdering that child."
Again, how would you know if it were careless or not? You help women who decide against abortion but not the ones who decided to go through with it?
I do question your moral compass. I find that it's pretty judgemental, hypocritical and harsh to not care about others who, made a mistake, got pregnant and decided to get an abortion.
I think that's unfair to any human being without fully knowing them or the situation in itself.
ReplyLike I've said before I do believe abortion should be legal but i also believe its murder. There are certain circumstances where it's the only option. Yet, it is murder. Young and dumb shouldn't be an excuse. If you're having sex, you know you can get pregnant, be cautious instead of murder. It's not "your body," it is a completely different human living inside of you. 18 days it has its OWN heartbeat. 8 weeks ALL of its organs are functional. 10 weeks it CAN feel pain. (Ever seen a video of an abortion? They literally rip the baby apart. They CAN feel it) 12 weeks the baby can smile. Call it a fetus, clump or cells, say it's not murder. Say whatever makes you feel better. You're ending a life painfully. The only difference in murder that baby vs A 75 year old is age. When a person is on life support, they're already brain dead to the point of no return. Therefore, it's not murder. They're already dead, not functioning. As for the death penalty, while I dont believe in it fully, they did something terrible to get there. What did the baby do? Nothing. I'm not talking about China or any other country. I'm talking about ours. Murder of any kind is sad. While not all murders that happen in the world are going to directly affect me, sorry, I'm not heartless in not letting them bother me. I didnt say, I'll hate and be against every women that has an abortion. Yet, if you know what the effect of sex can be, YOU didnt take any precautions, that's you're fault for getting pregnant. If you drive 90 in a 45, you're going to cause a wreck or get pulled over. You deal with the consequences of your actions. If someone is on there 7th abortion, I'm sorry, you're careless. It should be required you tie your tubes. Yes, it is absolutely judgemental of me, but when you're murdering a baby, I think I have a place to be. Also, I dont think all women that have abortions are careless. It's still possible to get pregnant while taking precautions. I got pregnant with my son and I had religiously taking my birth control for 5 years. You can't do whatever you want with a child outside the womb, why should you to one inside. It's your LIVING child. If someone gets a tattoo or plastic surgery, I dont care THAT is there own body. Abortion involves another living person. Murder is just not something I am okay with. So, answer me this, a baby is born before the abortion cut off and survives. Should you still be able to murder them until they hit the cut off? What's the difference between them and a baby still in the womb? Other than that you can see and hold them.
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