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My bf used to see his ex at the gym and they were kind of friends but I told him it makes me feel uncomfortable and he needs to stop talking to her. They stopped seeing each other at the gym and never talked. But the other day he ran into her and they both kind of chatted. Why would he do that? Why would he not listen to me and just walk away?
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Because he didn’t want to be rude. They are friends, get over it.
ReplyWithout any other context, it sounds like he was just being friendly. Normal human behavior if you run into someone, even if you've stopped hanging out in order to make space for, and respect, a new relationship. Your discomfort is -yours- to manage, not your boyfriend's... though if the relationship is a healthy one, the two of you should be able to talk about it, and each hear how the other feels, and discover together if the agreement for him to not talk to her is still overall working for you both, or needs to be amended. Good luck to you both.
ReplyShe was a big part of his life and you have to accept that. It doesnt mean he likes you less. Perhaps he wants to remain friends with her. You have to find a sense of trust or it will hurt your relationship. The more you try to control her the more he will feel like you dont trust him making it harder for you two to actually talk and connect. I would tell him that you trust him moving forward
ReplyHe could of been friendly with his ex. An ex is still an ex. Ex's shouldn't be friends unless children are involved and that's it. Why have the past relationships interfere with a new one.
If you both have come to terms that it's okay to be friends with your ex's.
Well, if ever you see one of your ex boyfriends which you're in good terms with. Give them a hello and a friendly chat too.
What's good for him, is good for you too and it's equally fair.
ReplyIn my opinion, he did stop talking to her.. he stopped seeing her at the gym and stopped having full blown conversations everyday with her. Bumping into her or running into her is a brief thing. You shouldn't feel like he is not listening because he is. It just so happens they ran into each. You can't help that and neither can they.
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