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Hi I’m 14. My girlfriend recently went to the Multi Service Ward for a suicide attempt and I have been really stressed because her mom keeps telling me stuff like “Don’t be surprised if you never see her again,” and “Whatever happens is best for her.”
I know telling her mom about her trying to attempt suicide was the right thing to do but sometimes I also think hey if I had never told her mom in the first place she would never have been in the Multi Service Ward or anything. I have been through a rough childhood I and I feel like my dad has been disappointed in me for my whole life. I take a bunch of pills every other day trying to overdose thinking it’ll relieve my stress but it doesn’t. I don’t want to die or anything I just don’t want to deal with the stress anymore. I really hope somebody can help me find a solution to this.
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Whyy does she wanna die? Be with her. And don't let her make wrong choices. What kind of a boyfriend lets his girlfriend make an attempt to suicide? And trust me. You guys are too young for pills. Dont take them.
And both of you take care. If you need to talk I'm here:)
ReplyWhat you did, telling her mom, wasn't completely wrong, since you had good intentions. Any person with a heart would do that; reach out that person's family.
So don't even regret that decision. Or blame yourself.
It's also expected for you to feel stressed. It's okay. But you shouldn't be taking pills. Try to mute your father's remarks about you being a disappointment. Because that isn't true. Also concerning that matter, try talking to your father about how you feel when you say that.
I'm also just 14 btw, and, I understand, how this stresses you out. And I know you probably won't like to hear this, because I didn't too, but, hold on. Just a little more. There's always a reason for these things. Prove your dad wrong, get through this trial as a couple and stay strong together. It will be tiring. Very. You'll feel, as if something really heavy is over your chest constantly, it really will. But you can't let that bring you down. Whenever you feel that way, scream, about, write, talk, play music, dance, way, distract yourself but never resort to to self harm. And no, I'm not only talking about cutting. Anything which will harm your body at health.
Don't stay alone. And, a tip, that I like to do, find yourself something to look forward to everyday. During the first thing in the morning, and during night. Even something as simple as seeing the school guard smile at you, or acknowledge you, or the puppy waiting outside, or one start or constellation, or your noisy neighbor.
Anything.
At all.
It will help.
Getting through this problem will be hard, but just remember that the pain will end, the problem will be solved no matter how impossible it seems.
I hope this helps. Stay strong.
ReplyHey, I am really sorry to hear about your girlfriend, I can't even begin to imagine how hard it must be for you. I'm 17 with anxiety and depression, I haven't had as rough a life as you, but I seem to keep running into bullies (some have threatened to kill me). I used to wish that the world would just eat me up (at this time I didn't really know about suicide). Thissucks is right, you just have mute the bad words as best you can. Try to find some real friends to talk to, and if you already have friends, lean on them a little. Don't try to overdose because later in life it is going to cause troubles again, and I know that you might think that's good, but at that point you might want to live, and you will regret attempting to od.
Stay strong
Lots of love and support
AN
ReplyI can't say much about her mother but I can say that if you cared and loved your girlfriend enough to want her to get help with whatever hardships she's going through I'm sure she must love you even if only half as much and it would be safe to assume she would want you to be safe and healthy
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