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So,I recently found out that my friend who I trusted the most and I believed was an angel was actually just putting on a show of kindness.
She recently got into an accident as she fell from a moving bus that's what she told me at first But when the higher authorities asked her and told they need to investigate further she opened up thatshe fell from a bike when she went on a ride with her boyfriend and I found out she lied to me.
I said it was okay and we calmed down.But the next day when she gave me her phone to get her some information a message bpooped up that contained my name , i generally don't open others messages but since I saw my name but was curious so I opened the chat, which led me to my disbelief that she who was trying to impress her boyfriend was saying all kinds of bad things about me and the boyfriend who was once my good friend, before they got into a relationship was all ranting about how he puts on a fake show Infront of me liking me to which she was agreeing and all indirectly saying I was filling her ears when she was the one who came up everytime upto me for suggestions a .the boyfriend was s claiming how she gives her time to me only (he is comparing my friendship with his relationship)when it clearly was evident that she is always chatting or talking with him and howI feel alone even when I am with her.
she who is physically hurt after the accident with some wounds in her leg(not a big one) and some scratches in her hand and me a stupid person who thought that she had this best friend ( who is not anymore).
I thought it was selfish of me to end my ties with her at that moment when she needed me the most .but then I got a call from her other friends who were cursing me for the friend I am and literally screaming at me (what I did was ignore her) .
I couldn't handle the betrayal So i let it out , but when my mom called her up saying not to involve her friends but clear it out yourselves( the one shouting)she was defending that friend of hers claiming that friend never said all those.
Suggest me what am I supposed to do !!
I am not able to focus on anything .All I think is of her betrayal. Did i do right ignoring her ?
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You definitely did the right thing in ignoring her! Real friends don't treat you like that, and say rude things about you. You'll find genuine friends babe, don't waste your time on fake, rude people.
ReplyYes, you did the right thing. Just ignore her, and don't forget to still do good to her and to other people. Someday they'll realize that they let go of the friendship that is worth keeping for.
ReplyYou should tell her that while you valued the time you were friends, but friendship is built on trust and enjoying each others precence and she has made it clear that she is not trustworthy and does not seem to enjoy your time together. You should also tell her that even though she is injured, she does not have any right to be mean to you and hurt you like this since words take longer to heal than any physical injury.
It's going to hurt a lot when you two split for good, but it will be for the best. I had a friend like this and I eventually said to heck with it and we argured about it for a while, but now I feel so much better. Those other clones that attacked you for her aren't worth dealing with, just ignore them and live your life.
Good luck to you. Remember that you are stronger than anyone knows and you can do what you need so that you can be free and happy.
Lots of love,
AN
Replyyou definitely did. her being fake is not being a real friend at all, obviously. and, you don't need them around you, there are always more people out there who will treat you just as you should be, and would know your worth. do not mind her, however, do not talk bad about her, too. do not become the person you, yourself, had rejected before.
ReplyThat is a terrible situation! You did absolutely right to ignore her - you don't need that kind of fakeness and toxicity in your life! You don't deserve that treatment! It can be very hard to concentrate after betrayal, as the mind replays what happened and there's a lot of anxiety. Processing the incident by talking with a therapist or through journaling and writing is good. Different ways of expressing it out, such as through art and such, can be good. Just different things to relieve the mind. But know that you are a really good person and the true winner here - you found out who is a totally fake friend and left! You did absolutely the right thing <3
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