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I don’t exactly know what i want to write here, but i’ll just try to state out what i think is making me feel insecure the most. To be honest, i have quite a good relationship with my partner, we both have similar taste in everything, we can talk about almost any topic, we spend much time together, we have a lot of fun together etc. But sometimes i really doubt he would say the same. I always feel like he is not telling me things, i mean he knows everything about me and compared to that i feel like i know nothing about him. All this was caused by the fact when i heard that he has two Facebook accounts, which he told me about but i never seemed to be interested in it. On that account he has such friends i’ve never heard about, oh and he went with them on vacation in summer as well. But after some stalking(which i know is terrible but my curiosity can’t help it) i found out most of his friends are friends of his best buddy and there was totally nothing to freak out. But the fact that he needs to create different accounts for different groups of people is really annoying and makes me think that he has to be different version of him to different people. He seems to be very active on that account and has not posted on this account(where he adds me) for about a year. He is trying to be different version of him with me and always say how he does not like to interact with people etc, while his other account proves wrong. Sometimes i feel like he is saying such stuff so that we can agree on that thing and won’t really tell me what he thinks. Well, i might look like super jealous crazy partner, but i am really not that type and will never be, i just want to make sure i am as important to someone as he is to me. I mean i am totally sure he really loves me, but sometimes this doubts are killing me and i just can’t figure out why he needs all that. I always tell myself that i should talk to him about such things, but i just can’t, i think i will just look like a fool and ruin everything. I really want to hear some kind of advice or i don’t know, just something to make me feel less stresses about it.
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You are not jealous or crazy - you’re intelligent and everything you ‘think’ you know is actually completely accurate. He sounds bipolar almost (probably not) but at the very least he is definitely not good quality partner material if he has double-lives already - he’s hiding behind 2 accounts because there’s something going on (mentally or physically) and you should detach and move on because there a TONS of wonderful, trustworthy, good-hearted, hide-nothing-from-their-partners type guys out there and you’ll facile across one of them in the right time. Have confidence in your intuitions and save yourself the grief he’s putting you through mentally because it doesn’t get any better with these types of people and it’s exhausting to be with them - I speak from many years of experience.
ReplyOk Lady, first calm down. There's might be nothing wrong in there. Sometimes people need to talk different way of topics or approach. It is similar with parents gossiping each others, and those topics might look like not appropriate in the perspective of others to hear so they keeping it from themselves. For example,If a loving parent have I child and let's say It is not growing normally like others, they keep it as to protect their child not because they are shame. And boys also talked alot of things that maybe they enjoy it but from their view they will be like clowns from others or more misunderstanding will occur.
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