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I am in love with a guy for the last 3 years. We had our small fights sometimes. But mostly it is because of me. I am always the one who shared everything with him. He rarely shares stuff with me. He says it's better not to share than to fight. I am feeling he doesn't love me. This is making me sad because I love him a lot but I don't want to stay with him if he doesn't. What should I do? Please share from your love life if your partner shares stuff with u or not.
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No mine doesn't and I would walk away if I could.
ReplyI don't share with my partner, because every time I share to them, they would either change the subject or told me that they're busy. So now, might as well passive aggressive by being silent whenever my partner start telling their problems, as if I don't give a damn about it.
If you can reflect my situation and think there should be a better option to fix it, probably that option might work for you. For me, it's a fighting between ego, one should admit they are wrong... but I like it this way because I've already stop loving them, it's not the first one I had this situation. :|
ReplyHey!
I was together with my partner for 3,5 years. I just broke up with him a week ago. Sharing is caring, but it's okay if he doesn't want to share. He is who he is and everybody has different needs and values. I had the same situation with my ex and it took me a long time to be honest with myself and say no more! I love him, I'll never forget him, but our relationship just didn't meet my needs. If you are not happy, considering to leave and the thought won't leave your mind, you have to sit down and think. What do you want? Tell him how you feel about sharing, your needs, your emotions, basically be totally honest! The result might surprise you. Just don't forget, you have to take care of yourself first!
ReplyI told him I want him to share stuff with me, but he tells me he doesn't want to make me worried. He says he has got his friends for that and they don't get worried when he shares his problems with them. But not knowing what his problems are makes me most worried, how do I explain him that.
ReplyOpen communication is the most important aspect of keeping a relationship together. Fights are ok, better than not communicating. It just means you are working something out rather than ignoring it.
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