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Hey guys, I am just curious do you think a love from a student to her formal high school counselor is disgusting and immoral?
She has graduated from high school a year ago and knows that if she tells her counselor the feeling she has for him right now can put his career and future at risk. So she plans to tell him that in 3 years later, when she graduates from college. But you know, she is worried that her counselor won’t accept her, her family and the community won’t accept this kind of relationship. So what do you think?
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I think she needs to look for someone her own age perhaps while in college
ReplyI think maybe attempting to seek someone more age appropriate would be best; however, if not possible then I would suggest waiting as planned. Maybe give everything time to be set in place, maybe she finds someone new, or maybe he gets a job somewhere else, etc. There are many possibilities, however telling them now is most likely not the best idea because that could put the counselor’s position at risk and it could kill his career.
ReplyMy first thought was transference. Meaning, not unlike the relationship between a therapist and their patient/client. It happens and is fairly common. Can this be true love? Well, how does the counselor feel? Even if the counselor feels something too, it might not be the healthiest of ways to fall in love. But, as we all know. When Cupid slings his arrow, watch out. There's no telling where and when and that's what makes falling in love so special. So, proceed with a sense of discretion and temperance. Because when it comes to matters of the heart, it behooves us all to wade in the shallow end at first. :)
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