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So about a month ago my dad left my mom for another woman, and ever since then my mom has been attached(not sure if that is the right word) to me. She gets scared whenever I leave the house and hugs for me God knows how long when I return. She's scared I'm gonna leave her even though I've told her I won't. Is there I can do to make her feel better or help her get better?
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A man is truly a jerk when they don’t value their relationship. But do keep in mind that every man is not the same. Some have a heart of pure gold, meaning that they would NEVER leave you nor be cruel to you. Obviously, the man your Mom married was not the right one. Sometimes, you have to accept the past because that’s what makes you more reliable and strong to stand their so brave. This is reality, learn to face it with no negativity.
ReplyOmg, that is something else. I am so sorry that happened to you guys. She is hurt for sure. All you can do is to spend time with her...hangout with her because she feels like everyone she loves is abandoning her.
My mom was attached to us, still is coz her 1st born was killed by friends. So she never trusted any of our friends. I just assured her, took her advice and gave her tough love.
She can only be in this stage for a few months after that you need to talk to her...tough love works all the time. She might not need to hear it but it will help her heal and realize she deserves better and that will also lift her self-esteem.
God bless your father, Karma is a bitch!
ReplyHow is it that "friends" would kill her first born? Are they in jail?
ReplyOur relatives from my dad's side. They hate us for some reason. Anyway, they were like 9 years old they pushed him into the river. Because they were young he didn't go to jail it was in the 90s.
ReplyYour poor mom. She really needs you right now. She needs help getting over her abandonment issues. EFT really helped me. I wish the best for both of you.
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