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why am i so attracted to him?
theres this guy who i cant seem to pull away from. no matter what, no matter what he does, i cant seem to stay away. hes literally like a magnet. we have a weird relationship. we're practically dating, but we dont have a label on it. he knows how i feel, and i know how he feels. we're both just too proud to say it to each other. we have like code for it, its complicated. we have ways of saying how we feel without saying those words. the thing is, its toxic. he likes to make me mad, he likes to see how far he can test me. he likes to make me jealous. when i somehow upset him, he gets really mean. he insults me, he bullies me, and sometimes he even slaps me(but its okay cause i like to wrestle him back). its a very confusing relationship, he likes to mess with my head. why do i like him still? why on earth do i still feel pulled towards him? why cant i just stay away?
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ReplyNever put up with someone hitting you ever. I wouldn't not ever.
ReplyThis is like with my first girlfriend. I was also crazy about her. I always use to think about her and accepts whatever she use to say.
But, I realised if someone does not respect your feelings and doesn't respect you, then how much I have feelings for her - I will never be happy with her. Later on I started avoiding her and try to focus on work and myself. Right now, I am fully over her and happy. Hope I conveyed the message.
Replyhow did you get the strength to just leave? i know i should leave but what if im just being overdramatic and ruin everything?
Replyyour in love with him... right..? you don't wanna leave this dude coz you'll get hurt .. and your scared ... but its ok for you that he keeps on hurting you that way ..? your scared of having a broken heart but its ok for you if he breaks you physically and mentally..?
Replyidk what to do. its like, when he hurts me, it hurts so much that i couldnt function. but when im with him, im so happy. i feel like im on top of the world. i know that when we grow apart its gonna hurt so bad for so long. but i know being with him is also breaking me. but i feel so happy until i dont, if that makes sense
Replyhow bout now..? are you still with him . . .?
ReplyI think that the reason you can't pull away is because he has mentally abused you in a way that you thirst for the toxicity and you believe it is "love" I was in an actual relationship just like this. These slaps and wrestles can turn into full fledge fights soon. He already thinks he owns you. No man should ever put a hand on a lady and vice versa. His insults and meanness reflects the level of respect he has for you in his head because he knows you don't deserve to be treated like that but you accept it. Get out before it's too late.
ReplyAll I could say is if you and him are really serious then make a move. Maybe he was being like that because he was comfortable with you and if you don't like the way he treated you , you should be honest with him. ALWAYS remember this, when you're in a relationship and theres a problem. its you&him vs. the problem not you vs. him. if you really do love him , things will work out no matter what as long as its reciprocal.
ReplyAll I could say is if you and him are really serious then make a move. Maybe he was being like that because he was comfortable with you and if you don't like the way he treated you , you should be honest with him. ALWAYS remember this, when you're in a relationship and theres a problem. its you&him vs. the problem not you vs. him. if you really do love him , things will work out no matter what as long as its reciprocal.
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