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So lemme just go straight to the main point because i really need some advices rn. My dad is a terrible person. I can't find any word that befit him more than that. He was irresponsible and didn't take care of his family. He has been tormenting my mom for almost 20 years. If i go into details and write about what he did it will take forever so I'll sum it up. He drinks he cheats and he even gambling. A few weeks ago he went missing and took my mom's car. We can't reach him so we decided to leave it like that. A few days ago, my mom brought a man home. She he has some business to deal with in our town and will stay at house for a few days. I reluctantly agreed. So the things here is that my mom would go to his room at night and she said she's helping him with his work. But do they have to turn off the light?
At first night i saw it i just convinced myself maybe I'm thinking too much. But now he's been staying here for 5 nights already.
What should i do? I feel so nauseated and guilty rn. One is because i suspect my mom, two if they really did what i think they did i can't accept it.
I feel so uncomfortable around that man. He look so hypocrite.
Please give me some advice.
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I'm not sure on your age, but you seem young enough not to be able to do anything about it, your dad is a bad father, and a bad husband, my mom used to deal with someone like that but she divorced him. It could get bad if your father came back and saw your mom with that man, but sometimes your mom needs a friend.
If the man is kinda scaring you, or does the same things your father does, or anything that upsets you, let your mom know.
If you feel guilty because f that guy being there, maybe you feel like your betraying your father, but eventually you need to be your own hero, maybe you look up to your dad, but you're gonna have to be there for yourself, what hes doing is not right, none of you deserve to be treated like that, your father is not worth any of your love.
But seriously, let your mom know
ReplyMy dad...well let's just forget him. I'm gonna talk to my mom tmr. This thing worries me so much that i can't even sleep at night. That man...well I'm not sure if he and my mom are really in anything but I'm gonna tell my mom how uncomfortable and unsettled i am to have a man i don't know around the house all day.
ReplyHas your dad just up and left before? And If so, Did a man you did not know come over?
ReplyThis is the first time my dad has gone like that and the first time my mom brought s/o home
ReplyI'd say he's there to replace him, if you're dad was to come back, that new guy may stop him. It very well may only be temporary, but maybe your mom just doesn't know how to tell you he's gonna replace your dad?
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