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So at my school a lot of girls pretend to be bi for attention so when someone who actually likes girls comes out people judge them. Well so ive decided to keep all me relationships with girls a secret cuz i dont want be made fun of
Im still not completely comfortable with being called gay and still not completely sure wat i am
Like am i bi or lesbian and the people i have come out to (close friends) tell me to not label myself yet
I still havent come out to my parents tho...
The other day one of my exs pretty much exposed me to the whole school and i started getting a lot of questions asked and i had a panic attack (has been happening a lot but no one really knows) i want to move but my parents would ask questions and they are extremely homophobic and i dont know how my sister would react. I feel like she would laugh or say its just a face or prolly thing im being dumb or im to young
So in conclusion im not comfortable with people asking a lot of questions on my sexuality. I over think things and i have panic attacks
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I am sorry you are having those issues and I hope it gets better. Have you thought about confronting the person who exposed you so that they know the effect they had? And also I think you could try talking things out with close friends since they may have good judgement due to how well they know you. Sorry if this advice isnt the best and I wish you well
Replygirls/girls/boys by panic at the disco!!
ReplyMaybe you are too young. Like for dating. Period.
ReplyIm 16
ReplyThere's nothing wrong with not having a name for your feelings. You'll know what you're feeling as you experience it, and once you have a grasp on those feelings, you can look into the name. No one is entitled to knowing about your sexuality, so if you don't want to talk about it, that's all that they need to know. You aren't required to come out to your family, either. You may choose never to, and that's fine, too. There are other people in the world you can talk to, and it doesn't mean you're lying to your family, just keeping your personal life, well, personal.
Also: You probably know this already, as you've been having panic attacks, but you may have an anxiety disorder. Part of anxiety and other related disorders can be overthinking things, having spiraling thoughts. Focus on breathing and "grounding" yourself in your body, as that can sometimes help distract people from their thoughts and help calm a racing heart.
I would recommend seeing a psychologist. Many schools have psychologists on campus, and you can request a meeting with one. If yours has this as an option, try to make a list of the things you want to discuss with them, and make sure you mention the panic attacks. That could be a good first step to treatment, and has the potential to make your life a lot easier. Tread carefully when giving sensitive information, however, and make sure that you know your rights when going in to speak with a medical professional, especially as a minor.
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