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what is a 15 year old supposed to do on a 10 weeks long summer vacation without friends?
it wouldn't be such a big problem if i didn't have any friends but right now i'm being left out by my two friends who i ALWAYS hang out in school with and i don't understand why. they've suddenly realized that they don't want to hang out with me so they just don't ask me with them even tho they know i don't have anything to do. and what's making it worse is that i see everyone i know party and doing fun stuff while i'm just at home bored to death. and it's such nice weather for once now. i wouldn't want to waste it while sitting in my room and wondering why my friends left me.
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Why don’t you ask them what the problem is? Maybe you did something to upset them but if you didn’t then they are just fake friends☺️
ReplyTry texting or callling then. Insted of waiting for them to ask you, ask first. And all in all, you shoud read books man, like, pick up any book you might be interested in, i have always read in the summer breaks. You have most of the time then. But, like i get it, you want to party too, try to balance those. But again... you should ask first to invite someone. dont wait.
ReplyFind something new, opposite of how they be fun. you can be happy like how happy they are. Don't think about "why they left" why don't invite you. Think of find someone or something better, join any friendly group social media or events. Try to rebuild your creativity to find something more fun, that would make you attend. A lot of things you can be happy. It is your choice if you just want to jealous or thinking about why they don't need you. But i wish you choose to find something better of your hubbies. Then that would make you a lot of friends with the same interest.
ReplyI 90% with your advice except for the social media one. I used to have 0 friends and I too was mistakened and fooled by the thought that social media would make me feel less isolated and more busy. Instead, social media made me feel more miserable and more lonely. I left it, and I started to stick up to my hobbies, now I enjoy life. There has been researches conducted and proven to how social media actually increases depression, mental illnesses, and isolation.
I too suggest that the owner of this post starts to learn how to live with themself and learns to build a self-relationship and a strong, positive, healthy relationship with themself. This does include hobbies and joining city clubs or activities such as jobs and volunteering. He/She can try to be the first one to ask them out, or start making new friends (We can teach you how) and realize that people come and go in life, that no one stays till the end except for you, and God.
Reply90% agree with your advice***
ReplyHave you thought about maybe finding a summer job? Summer jobs can lead to new encounters of meeting new people. If not, try doing something new!! Good luck!
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