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A few days ago, my boyfriend killed himself. I’m crying and crying I can’t believe it. I also have depression and have had it for a few years. He was the one who always supported me and helped me through my darkest times. He once stayed up all night so I could get to sleep. He was the kindest most generous person. I’m feeling so guilty because I was so wrapped up in myself that I didn’t notice what he was going through. I could have stopped him or helped him or something and I didn’t! I’m honestly thinking of joining him in heaven so I can apologise please help me
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Oh sweetheart. I don't even have words. I'm so incredibly sorry. I'm crying for you. This must be unbearably heartbreaking for you. Please stay strong and stay. I'm here for you, luv. Please don't hesitate. I'm so sorry you're going through this. With all my love.
ReplySweetheart, this isn't your fault. No way. You loved him. I am so so so extremely sorry he took that decision. This is.. I don't know if there are words. This was his action, his decision, not yours. You aren't guilty of that. It wasn't your fault. It wasn't your fault that you were in pain yourself.
I hope you find peace, sending you all the love in the world. Please talk to someone about this, don't keep it trapped inside. I am here if you want to talk.
ReplyThank you, so so much. This means so much to me thank you thank you thank you
ReplyI'm very sorry for your loss. It is not your fault that he killed himself, or that you did not realize he was having problems. Everyone is responsible for themselves. I hope that you seek out a therapist to help you through your personal problems, and grief. You must not even think of suicide. There is happiness ahead. Please seek help so you can find it. I too know about grief and loss. God bless.
ReplyI’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my boyfriend 3 years ago, not by suicide but i can relate to you so much. I immediately started blaming myself too. However you can’t continue blaming yourself, you couldn’t have known and it’s not your fault. It’s easy to think “if i had done this or if i had done that” but there’s still no guarantee that you could have helped him if you did things differently. You’re only human and we all make mistakes. He obviously loved and cared for you a lot and the last thing he would want for you is to blame yourself or do what he did. He will always live on in your memories, stay strong sweetheart
ReplyYour boyfriend would now want you to feel guilty. He would feel badly if he knew you were feeling guilty.
Again, I'm so sorry you're going through this. You'll be in my prayers, luv.
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