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I’m a 19 years old girl, who has a crush on a guy who’s a friend of mine. I’ve already confessed to him but he rejected me nicely, by saying that he’s currently with someone.
Later the other day, he was upset so we started talking and I realized that his family is setting him up with this girl that he doesn’t like. This is a very common thing in my society. So, he seems to have feelings for me as well, but I don’t wanna be the reason why he might break up with her, even though he didn’t say that he will.
I was able to hold all of my feelings back and treat him as a friend for a while, but now they’re all back.
Idk what to do, I really really like this guy I never felt like this before. But I don’t wanna be the reason they split up...
at the same time he is forced to be with someone he doesn’t like, I find it unfair. What should I do?
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I cannot even begin to understand your culture. If its meant to be, it will be though....maybe they will split up. He already said he doesn’t want to be with her, so you won’t be the reason.
ReplyYeah things are pretty complicated where I live, I’m not even allowed to have male friends so.. lol.
Thank you.
ReplyI think he just wants someone to talk to and there's a big chance he doesn't like you, he just want someone to lean on. When I was in your situation I just hold back my feelings and distanced myself from that person. I think fighting for someone you love when their parents are against the two of you and succeeding to win only happens in fairy tales. We're not Romeo and Juliet to fight for love till death.
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