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My friends are really important to me but they seem to only talk to me when they need something. Its not like im being selfish, Its just that It became a hobby of them everyday. I'm kinda getting annoyed. I want to tell them but Im scared that they will get angry at me and I will lose them..
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I know that feeling as well. Ever since primary school, I have been cast aside by my friends even by the one I called my best friends. I don't know if they realize it or not. I never spoke about it with them cause like you, I didn't want them to be angry at me. I didn't want to lose them. It was also because I was bullied when I was 9 just because I was talkative and it made me scared to talk freely, to be myself. This went on till high school. Because of I was scared to talk, I made the wrong choice of friend. I regret it.
So my point is, don't be scared. Your happiness and feelings should also be prioritize. If you are unhappy about something with your friends, talk it out nicely. Find out why they did what they did. Sometimes, the answer will not be what we want. Maybe it is because your friends aren't really intending to be your friends. But it can also be caused by a misunderstanding. If they really are just ignoring you intentionally, then they miss out on having an amazing person as their friend.
I;m sorry if any of this makes no sense to you and was unhelpful. But I wish you the best of luck and I hope you will always remember that you are worthy of everything and so much more.
ReplyWell the good thing is you get to pick your friends yourself. Others can leave you alone becuase no matter how much the mess with your life or you the answer is NO. Live and let live however the more people mess with my life the more people I will have to mess their life up. Do your thing and let others do their thing. Simple math really.
ReplyThank you. I'll try to talk to them
ReplyIt was really helpful! Thank you
Replyyou know... there is another way of telling them without "telling them exactly"... if you feel like they are about to do it again .. try to make a new schedule or new activitiy for you to work on so you could make an excuse without telling them a lie ... what i mean is that you have to find a new thing that will make your time be useful for yourself and not make more time for the emptiness of your friends...
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