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My birthday is in a few days and I am exited about that, however, my entire friend group is going on a camping trip a few days afterwards and they didn't invite me. They had been planning this for at least a month and a half. I even asked one of them if i could go once but she just gave me a doubting face and said that she would ask the others. I didn't even get a straight answer until my two best friend, who also live with me, both got invited to a chat for the event yesterday and started talking about it exactly. I assume this means that I'm not going. Doesn't this mean that I am the annoying friend? I know I can be clingy/loud/whiney at times, but I never thought it bothered them that much? I've also noticed that one friend in particular seems to avoid having me over at her house, even though my two best friends/housemates will go over there all the time, but the three of them are siblings, so I just assumed that was the reason.. but was I wrong? Is she only friends with me because I am her siblings' best friend? I never in a thousand years imagined that I was the worst friend in the group as well. There is one friend who has done many things that were not okay. I won't say everything, but I will say that they got realy mad at another person in the group and told them that if they killed themselves then it was that other persons fault, also a while afterwards they were dating that same person, and had hidden a tuft of that person's hair under their pillow in a small box. I cannot fathom how they would prefer them over me, and I know that is rude, but I can't help how I feel about this. What makes this all worse is that I am on my menstruation cycle right now and will still be on my birthday. I asked one of my best friends if it would be weird to switch the date of my birthday to just 3 days later and she gave me an annoyed face and said she was busy. A few hours later she walked into my room, which we all have our doors open because there is a heat wave and we only have two air conditioners so there is no privacy, and started to talk to me, about things that i don't remember because I have memory problems, then she goes quiet for a moment and says out loud; "I wonder if it's worse to have your period on your birthday or while you are camping?" ... at this point I was having cramps and was upset about the whole camping thing so I just looked at her, and apparently I had an upset face because she then said; "what's with that face? I was just thinking out loud." So i said that I just didn't want to be reminded, and she left. I'm honestly not sure if I'm just over reacting, because I'm on my period, and I have the habit of being dramatic anyways, but this really does hurt. Do I really have less friends than I thought? Do they hate me? Is this stupid and I'm just over reacting?
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Hey... almost the same thing happend to me, twice. You're not overreacting, I know 100% how you feel.
I came over it by talking to other people over the internet. You can find amazing people to talk to if you feel lonely.
I also try to raise my self esteem, that helps a lot.
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