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I have a dilemma. Over the past few months, I have noticed increasingly severe acne-like sores, many of which are near a rather...intimate area. I know it's something I need a dermatologist to look at, but I've been stalling. I have some social anxiety issues. I don't like people touching me. I don't even hug my closest friends or family. The thought of anyone examining, diagnosing, and/or treating such a delicate area has prevented me from scheduling the appointment yet. Even with an additional nurse in the room, it just seems anxiety-ridden. Don't get me wrong -- I trust the doctor, and I know he would never do anything to intentionally cause harm. But there's still a lot of anxiety over the situation. Does anyone have any experience in dealing with this kind of thing? Any tips for making things easier? (And don't tell me to "just do it" or "get over it." My anxiety doesn't work that way.)
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Yes, I've been in that situation when I was a little kid. I knew my doctor would never mean harm, but I was still really nervous when I had to do it. I told my mom I didn't want her to do it, but then she said something along the lines of "Well, then how else are you going to receive help? The doctor needs to see your situation so he can treat it properly." I couldn't think of another way, so I asked my mom to be with me when it happened.
In other words, if you have someone you trust and who is comfortable watching you in close ways, perhaps you can ask them to go with you and watch the consultation.
ReplyIt could be tough I’m not too sure about it but you could straight up tell the doctor that you’re nervous about the whole examination. It might help that the doctor has a better understanding of your situation and maybe they could help make it easier for you. Either way, I wish the best of luck to you with this situation!
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