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Earlier this month, I decided to move on from a crush I had. It was pointless as he was in a relationship, and while we were both very attracted to each other, I didn't want to break up a relationship. So, I stopped coming around and eventually unfollowed him on every social media platform. I figured it was fine since he probably didn't like me like that anyway. But, sometimes I think back on when we hung out with each other. And I think that he obviously liked me and I feel bad. But, I don't want to reach out to him as I'm afraid of what might happen as a result. Or, I worry that he'll be upset with me and won't respond. I don't know. I'm basically feeling extremely upset and my whole moving on isn't going as smoothly as I'd like. He constantly creeps into my thoughts while I'm at work or even watching TV. I see other guys and comapare them to him without thinking. I see something simple like a movie scene and think about he'd react. I have random memories of him flash through my brain. And it's not special moments. They're like, a time he spoke a loud randomly or how he looked eating his avocado sandwich. I don't know. Sometimes, I worry that I'm not moving on at all. Am I? I'd this normal? Is this a more extreme crush, because it's definitely more painful then I expected. Could someone please give me some advice?
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Yep! It’s normal alright! Letting go of someone that you really love! Have u liked him for a long time also?? I’ve tried to get over my crush.. (I’ve liked him for over 8 years now) it’s pretty hard... very painful... And wherever I went I thought of him... But sooner or later you will forget about your crush slowly... If u hang out with friends more on and find someone better, the liking will fade... And if the liking doesn’t fade away as fast.. It’s pretty normal.... Not as easy as you really think, but you will eventually!! Remember To Stay Strong And Keep Moving Forward!! Wish you the best of luck!!! :)
ReplyThanks! I'm doing a little better, but it's still painful. I can't really say how long I've liked him. We met a couple years back and I found him intriguing. But I denied any attraction I felt for so long that now I can't pinpoint when exactly it started. But I do know that by the time I admitted it, my feelings were very strong. I'm trying to focus on my school and friendships as a distraction. It's kind of working too, thank goodness.
ReplyYasss! Glad to hear you doing better!! And Yes!! Focusing more on friendships and especially your studies does get your mind off of him!!
Replyi used to have this problem too, i tired and tried until i gave up. it's not easy to walk away but let him go. remember,
they can't steal the love you born to find.
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